or back out?pls i need an answer.
2006-12-10 18:46:25 · 20 answers · asked by Bature O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he didn't dump the first gf..then yes you should run before you become number 2 gf, waiting to see if theres going to be a 3rd..
2006-12-10 18:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by cintinightbird2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, in the long run things are going to get messed up and you are going to get hurt, he's going to have excuses saying 'I'm confused', 'my head is not in the right space' or wack *** excuses like that. By the looks of things it seems as though you are already in too deep, that is what is going to make it so much harder. Imagine what he thinks of you and says about you, because u were quite eager to go out with him even though he has his own girlfriend.. I don't think you should continue with this relationship it's unfair to you and his other girlfriend. If he can cheat on his rightful girlfriend, he will do the same to you in the long run anyways. It shows what kind of guy he truly is and he truly isn't worth it, atleast not you dignity and self-worth.
2006-12-11 03:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by beyonce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if he is seeing someone else then you have to leave. I am sure that you love him but he doesn't love and RESPECT you if he is doing this. You have to know that you are worth having someone that truly cares for only you. You deserve someone that can give you a love that will drain them of love for someone else.
If you let this guy or any other guy mess around on you all you are doing is wasting time when you could be looking for that guy that will love you back and respect you.
Good Luck.
2006-12-11 02:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Feather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two friends. They both started dating while he was still living with someone else, but now theyre together and have been for a while. He cheats on her just like he cheated on the girl he was living with. I always think that shes got to know that he's cheating on her, but she just ignores it. Maybe this is the same case for you?
Deep in your heart you probably know the answer.
2006-12-11 02:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by idontknowjustgivemeaname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he felt the same way you do, then you wouldn't have to ask, and he wouldn't STILL have a girlfriend. If it feels wrong, you know you shouldn't be doing it. Walk away honey only more heartache awaits you. Nothing stops him from pursuing you if he wants to AFTER he leaves her, for you, that's the only right way
2006-12-11 02:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by kathycracksit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you feel if your boyfriend is cheating on you? Put yourself in his girlfriend's place. Stop the relationship. If you two really love each other, then he would break up with his girlfriend and be with you.
2006-12-11 02:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't continue with this relationship because you are counted as third party.That guy also should be honest with you,if he can treat her current gf like this,she also can do the same to you.
2006-12-11 03:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still with the other girlfriend and dumps her for you,what makes you think he won't cheat on you?Do you want a stable relationship or permanently share?
2006-12-11 02:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should back off. If he would get with you while he has a girlfriend he'd do the same thing to you.
2006-12-11 02:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can back out now or keep dating him until he decides to do to you what he did to his girlfriend. if you stop now you wont have as much invested in him when he cheats on you like he did her.
2006-12-11 02:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋