i have a girlfriend who likes to much myspace and msn things.i dont care about this but i am getting mad at her when she adds the random man on her space or msn, i mean i am getting jealus.i told her a few times but i thing she does not understand me. do u thing am i wrong guys?please let me know wht u thing about it.
2006-12-10 18:45:36 · 12 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have a girlfriend who likes to much myspace and msn things.i dont care about this but i am getting mad at her when she adds the random man on her space or msn, i mean i am getting jealus.and they are not her friends , they meet up online , u know myspace things people send eachother friend request, and i thing she should not add man unless she know them...i told her a few times but i thing she does not understand me. do u thing am i wrong guys?please let me know wht u thing about it.
2006-12-10 18:48:48 · update #1
i've had a boyfriend for over 2 years and I have a myspace page. I have tons of guys on there...guys I work with, guys from high school, guys i've met at bars and i ran into on there and a random guy that just wants to add me...but I also have some girls for the same reasons..and some of the men on there are people that i've been with in the pas but are friends...i guess you just have to trust that person...my boyfriend monitors my messages I get and the ones i leave for the ones that are a little suspect and he asks about it...I offered to make him a page so he could join in but he declined so its his loss....i always explain everything he asks about suspicious messages....because he is the super jealous type...sounds like you are the same....
2006-12-10 18:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its just guys over the internet, you shouldnt be jealous at all. Jealousy is a major thing that can end a relationship. You should just chill out a little, think of it this way, she is not meeting them in person, and she is only talking to them on the internet. If you tell her she can't have guy friends added on myspace, or msn, its controling and wrong. I let my boyfriend have as many freinds that are girls on aim and myspace. Its called trust, having a great relationship, and understanding its good for men and woman in relationships to have friends of the oppisite sex, its just a friend, and its Healthy. Dont worry to much dude, shes with you, and thats all that matters.
2006-12-11 02:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by devildoll502 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going through a similar situation. My fiancee gets extremely jealous if I look at guy friends page more than once or twice a day. He thinks that I am going to leave him for friends off of myspace. IT JUST MYSPACE. If she is in a committed relationship with you you have nothing to worry about. I mean do you really think that she is going to go out with someone she met off the internet? The more you pressure her about this the more shes going to do it to prove she is the one that makes decisions about her life. again let me stress that it is just myspace. It is really sad how many couples break up due to myspace. Have we really turned into a society that instead of focusing on what is right in front of us that focus on whats going on in cyberland? < I know I answered this with another question sorry, but I am trying to prove a point that she is right there with you not with the random people she comes across on myspace. Have you ever thought maybe she is to sweet to hit deny to a friend request? I know I have a hard time saying deny to someone its just so mean.
hope this helps
2006-12-11 02:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by kort 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ifuknowher e_mail adress go to my space and click on 4 got pass word or name and it will send the info to her e-mail and u get the name and info and log in to my space and see what she writte to the guys!!!DONT LET HER KNOW!!!! keep checking her 4 2 weeks till she starts frurting and print them just in case she erases the msg's !!get a my space and add a hole bunch of girls may b she wakes up!
2006-12-11 02:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by MINIME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a computer nerd and you are a pathetic loser. Go get a real girlfriend and sto pbeing so jealous. You are the type that goes in a kiliiing frenzy and shoots up people when life gets hard . Or the type that ends up stalking people and killing them and eating them up.
2006-12-11 02:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Answer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't take that stuff too serious...tell her you want to spend more time with her away from the Internet. After all it is only a form of entertainment.
2006-12-11 02:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by kamsmom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
relax. step back. and put everything in retrospect. then ask yourself; "is anything really wrong?" if you get on her case about adding guys, she just might turn it around about YOUR "female friends"...so just cool it.
-no proof no evidence
-no evidence no case
-no case, no reason to be jealous.
2006-12-11 02:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her and find somebody better, just get your stuff together and leave. It not worth the trouble and it sounds like you tried. Find someone better
2006-12-11 02:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by monochrome R 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it's normal? Dont try to restrict her..just let nature take it's course!
2006-12-11 02:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
u need to talk to her... tell her bout ur sorrow feeling...
there's nothing wrong if u get jealous... u r her b/f, right??
just talk...
2006-12-11 02:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋