He doens't like me doing it that's all i know he doesn't like them for some reason so i said i wouldn't bring him with me anymore,&he said that it makes him mad even when he finds out that i went even if it was awhile ago i don't know how i should confront him about this b/c he doesn't know i'm still riding them!
2006-12-10 18:35:30 · 12 answers · asked by I need an Unbreakable ♥! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's jealous. Maybe you love horses more than you love him.
2006-12-10 18:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't give you a good sane reason, keep doing what you love! That's just the sign of a major control freak. Don't let him isolate you from the things you love.
I can't convince you of this, but chances are, you need to dump him. Not because he dosen't like you riding horses, but because of what's lying beneath that cover.
2006-12-11 02:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are who you are. If he loves you he will accept you. You have been and enjoy riding and there is no reason for his insecurity, fear and control issues to make you give up something that I know for a fact is like being with your best friend or family. It's like asking you to not see your folks or siblings. He needs to get over it.
2006-12-11 02:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One one way dear, is to talk to him, ask him to be honest with you. Maybe its because he's fear for your safety. A lot of accidents had happen to horse riders and perhaps he had a bad experience before.
If he luvs you then he should respect what you like and you can assure him its safe by telling him what are the precaution you are taking. Just sit down and talk it out together, nicely.
Good luck.
2006-12-11 02:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his jerk-*** to get over it. Damn, it's not like you are going out clubbing and flirting it up with other guys, you are riding horses!! If it something you like to do he needs to get over it and accept it. I really don't see what the problem is?? ohhh your riding horses!?!! Big whoop!!
2006-12-11 02:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to accept that fact that you ride horses, or somethings going to happen!
2006-12-11 02:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a control freak, I would seek the advice of my loved ones on this. Once he knows he can stop you from doing what you love where will it end?
2006-12-11 02:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is worried you will get hurt or he is worried you are getting pleasure from riding the horse and not from riding him.
2006-12-11 02:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by Allie K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's completely odd request from him. Perhaps you need better communication with him in all areas of your relationship since you have no idea why he would make such a request.
Peace.
2006-12-11 02:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple. he doesn't want your to be exposed on some strenuous activity like riding horses for it affects the tightness of your when having sex.
2006-12-11 02:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by Spurs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋