I'm a christian man, i got a girlfriend, so i'm trying not to think about sex and perverted things, but i can't seem to quit. Even when she's just in her shorts, i feel turned on. I hope i hear from someone who knows what i'm talking about...
2006-12-10 18:33:50 · 22 answers · asked by cupofjoe_84 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
hey!! i can say, you're looking too much.. =)
man, when you're busy and do not give room to thinking idesas like that then you could certainly have no chance of stopping the urge because you wont have them. try to busy yourself thinking of something more worthy.. =) it is not easy.. =) but i as Philippians said, "[you] can do all things through Christ who strengthens [you]."
.. =)
2006-12-10 18:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by ayvann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the animal in you man. It's completely natural to think about sex 24 hours a day. Christianity should have nothing to do with it. I think about having sex with my girlfriend about every 15 seconds doesn't matter what she is wearing. Its all about procreation that is more natural than any religion I know of.
2006-12-11 06:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Spatz Columbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to quit thinking about sex is by having sex. What's the matter? If your religion teaches you sex is wrong, something is seriously wrong with it. Maybe you should start questioning it.
Oh, and here's a hint - something that doesn't hurt anybody can't be a sin.
2006-12-11 03:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by eldad9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some advise from a man. It is normal for you to have these thoughts, and have them often, so I am told, especially as a young man. Try thinking about sports or something else.
2006-12-11 02:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by tonks_op 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Lord, your question turned me on.
God is in all things. He made you that way.
Sex is the icing.
The cake is the rest.
If you really want to turn yourself off, you're going to have to ask your Guardian Angel. But beware. This just might work, and then where will you be? Barely alive, man. Barely alive.
2006-12-11 02:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by Shinigami 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, The Apostle Paul. Take a look at his letters, like 1 Cor,
2006-12-11 02:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by J. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a gift exclusively from GOD!! To be enjoyed and nurtured through his love for us and ours through him. What other species that he created has sex for love and enjoyment? No one not even the most holy of men ever stop thinking of sex. It is natural from God. He created it so we could enjoy it. Don't be so hung up about it. It's from God. All humans have the urge to merge. Without it we couldn't be fruitful and multiply.
2006-12-11 02:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat1640 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to pray that God will help you through those times. Try to think about Him dying on the cross when you start to feel the urge. Whatever takes your mind off it. Or just think of one of your hobbies like music or movies, something to distract you.
2006-12-11 02:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its naturally for a man to want the woman he is with. you have to use self control. God has given us the spirit of self control. Just ask the Holy Spirit to give you strength to deal. just don't give in. and if it gets to bad just marry the girl. better to be married than go straight to the pit of hell.
2006-12-11 02:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by yellabanana77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your balls off. It's what Jesus wanted.
There are some who made themselves eunuchs for the Kingdom of Heaven's sake. -Matthew 19:12
2006-12-11 03:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by abram.kelly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋