guyz pls advice do i have to bother about our age gap?, i met this lady when i went vacation. the moment i saw her i felt something different ( not yet love for sure) then we met & do some talkings to each other sharing something ( like normal ways we used to do when we met someone new) then later on days past by i felt something realy different now. the thing is she had a BF back home & her friends also mentioned that to me also & their relationship with her BF now is getting cold for some reason. i know the lady likes me & you can sense it. last night when we where in the airport , we said goodbye with our hands close & tight to each other like she dont want me to go. i can see the sadness on her eyes & i felt the same way. we spoke also when we arrived home last night & i can hear the sadness of her voice. i missed her alot now . shall i go ahead on this feelings of mine ? or shall i wait for their relationship with her BF to be finished first?
2006-12-10 18:33:10 · 13 answers · asked by CLoud9 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her take care of the BF first; if they end it give her time to adjust so she don't take you on the rebound.
2006-12-10 18:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy so I hope it's ok I answer your question. First, let her take care of her relationship with her BF. Don't interfere there or you could ruin any chance you have with her. So you need to just wait and see. If their relationship is over you'll find out soon enough. As far as the age gap, women today aren't like they used to be, they don't mind younger guys. As a matter of fact it seems like more and more are going for the younger ones. My daughters husband is 10 years younger than her and they are very happy. I was talking to my Dr. about my daughters age difference and he said his sister is married to a guy 10 yrs. younger than she is and they've been together 15 yrs. now. So age shouldn't come to question unless the guy acts immature. Then I could see a problem. GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-10 18:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating someone that is on the rebound is never a good idea. I am sure that you know what you are feeling but does she? She might have been having a hard time with her BF and meet someone that showed her a little postitve attention and it felt nice. I am not saying that talking to her would hurt anything as long as it is friendly and netural. The age shouldn't matter to much. There is 16 years between my husband and I. ( That Is A Little Too Much) but 5 years is nothing.
Just take your time I am not sure what kind of music you like but this made me think of a great song by Gary Allen
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Good Luck
Feather
2006-12-10 18:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Feather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to worry about the age gap. If you like her, then just go for it. But, when you mentioned that she already have a boyfriend, I think you need to back off a little. Maybe you can start off as a friend first. Put yourself in her boyfriends place, what would you feel if some other guy tries to steal your girlfriend away from you? From what you've stated here, looks like the girl has a strong feelings towards you too. But you're just gonna have to wait. She's still attached with her boyfriend.
2006-12-10 18:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it isn't much of an age gap ever hear about demi moore and the guy on 70's show? donald trump is 60 his wife 27 paul mcartney is 64 his wife is 26 age doesn't matter when you love someone. but.. interfering with a relationship is not good if she has one already going on. be there for her but dont ride it or chase it. shes vulnerable coming out of one relationship and wil be leary and want to go slow and trust. dont push it take it as it comes.
2006-12-10 18:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, dude, but for what it's worth. . .
5 years is barely noticeable, let that one go.
Let her end her relationship with this other person but keep in touch.
Don't call her every day but let her call you anytime she wants to talk.
Probably shouldn't see too much of each other to avoid making her break-up messy.
Be a friend. Be a friend and tell her that you care for her but can't do anything about that until she is free and wait for her to be free.
It will happen sooner than you think.
2006-12-10 18:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by octopussy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The age gap is not a hindrance to a relationship especially if it's
not that much of a difference.Go ahead and pursue your feelings
and don't wait any farther because it might not turn out right.You are in love and so is she.
2006-12-10 18:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by ROMEO M B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 10:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by rosen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giv u n her a chance n dun mention about ages , ages isnt relate to love ... btw never try never known... so GO AHEAD... wish u luck dude
2006-12-10 18:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by Casey Kc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it man. She is only 5 yrs. older than you, she is on the rocks w/ her man, you felt a connection, and you should of tagged that on vacation(because when girls go on vaction together, what happens there stays there).
2006-12-10 18:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋