I been dating a guy for two months now and he seemed very interested in me and was talking serious about how much he liked/loved me. Anyway lately i havent seen him much and he never calls when he says he will,he was supposed to call me over the weekend but never did. He mentioned about having probs with his daughter but why cant he put aside 10 seconds of his life to txt me to let me know whats going on?i havent heard from him in days.
2006-12-10 18:32:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you say days I'm not sure how many you mean. 2 or 3 days without calling is not unreasonable. If its been over a week then I'd wonder. You could always start accepting dates from other guys.
2006-12-10 18:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMITTMENT.. okay a guy.. says he loves you to please a woman and make her feel warm and possibly safe. so when that is accomplish guys like to say okay.. "its in the bag" so we really dont need to call or check up cuz its done or .. "the seed has been planted" (40 yr old virgin) so a woman i think has to show, hey why arent you calling or say something like "are peple in a relationship SUPPOSE to talk" u know guys like to believe they are in control ALL the time so they like to keep the relationship on HOLD till they feel they want one.and thats just simple animal instinct i believe.. yes ive done it a lot but if i like the girl then i well make the effort to make her continously feel warm.. the goodmorning.. how is your day... and the goodnight i love you's.. which makes me fee like yes im doing what i can in this relationship to make it work.. and if it fails i know that i did i give it a good shot .. and if it does not work then it more then likely wont ever..... thats what i have seen without the daughter in it..
2006-12-11 02:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by burnin_inphx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait dont jump the gun, you have no idea how hard its to manage family issues, esp when it involves children. Its so mind boggling do the person probably dont have 10 seconds to himself so what more to call you.
Even if he does call you i think he will be in a pretty down or bad mood so dont think you want to talk to that person.
Maybe give him some more time or what you can do is sms him like "hope you are ok", hows your weekend, free for tea....small things like this.
If he does not respond, then I think you got the message he must have found someone else. So then you can move on.
Good luck.
2006-12-11 02:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he really is 'into' you, he'll not leave you wondering like you are.
Does he really have problems with a daughter or is that just an excuse not to call? I wonder.
Gather up your self pride and get on with your life.
Being left wondering, no matter what the excuse, is not acceptable.
If he really cared, he'd be there seeking your emotional support in regards to his daughter.
If he drifts completely, that's proof he's not worth the effort.
2006-12-11 02:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he has achild ,you should give him a break.I have a daughter,and I really do intend to call my friends/family when I say but alot of the time life gets a little busy and I just can't.They all understand.
2006-12-11 02:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy, and when I say i will call, its done with the intention of calling. When I pick up the phone, this troll like creature comes up behind me, kicks me in the ***, rips the phone out of my hands, and runs off into oblivion. Matter of fact, this or something similar happens to all of us men when we try calling after stating we will. Ladies, find this troll and stop it from making us look like we don't feel like talking.
2006-12-11 02:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey... youre stealing my life...
There can be sooo many reasons. But you already know that. In the end, you have to not let it matter so much, and learn to look at it different... Let it be ok whether he calls or not. When it matters so much, we look needy. And they still want a challenge, not a cling.
Im telling myself too...
2006-12-11 02:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by yankeeroses3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, are you blonde? Secondly, Guys say they will call to sleep with you. They dont call because they have slept with you. If they like you a lot they might sleep with you for some time till they can find some one better. So get a life and sleep around. Stop worrying about this guy. Infact, if you send me your pic, I will consider sleeping with you and helping you get over him. But dont complain later if I dont call. I hate whiners!
2006-12-11 02:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Answer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont you hate that! I mean if he says hes going to call..he BETTER. You should talk to him about this. Cuz i dont know about you, but im the type of person that if someone says something it better be a huge emergency like a car accident for them not to call/text me..lol..(hahaha)..No, seriously talk to him.
Good Luck-And God Bless
2006-12-11 02:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by justanobservation-notajudgement 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know this situation very well. He's probably not interested, or is seeing someone else. Dont call him at all and leave him alone and see what he does.
2006-12-11 02:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by candace g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋