I love this girl so much,and we do communicate throughout.I have also expressed my feelings to her but she told me that i should have to wait,and i made date to her this friday and she agreed,but how can i express my feelings to her lather than saying i love her! which way ways to convice her so that she aapriciate me? and can i give her a present on the first date?
need your help please!
2006-12-10 18:30:47 · 8 answers · asked by kijana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, first off, no present on the first date. Kinda creepy/overbearing.
Girls can tell you have feelings for them in the small stuff. Laugh at what she says (if it's funny). Make her laugh. Keep it light. Look into her eyes. When you speak to her, make sure your body is facing in her direction. Go to hold her hand (if you think she'd be confortable with that). Don't try to kiss her, unless it seems she is expecting/wanting it.
Where are you going? (so I can be more specific)
2006-12-10 18:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Trix_Disorder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In courting any girl, action speaks louder than words.
You have already told her you like her, you need not repeat that to her ad nauseam.
Just remember to be a thorough gentleman, do not push her too much, relax and enjoy her company.
You say you have know her for quite some time. At least, you must have an idea what subjects she enjoys talking about. Keep a stready flow of intelligent, interesting conversation but when she speaks - LISTEN; she may already be giving you a hint of you fate and you would not want to be too focused on her neckline when she does.
Keep this in mind: She chose to spend many hours with you when she could have spent it with some other guy, so you're in good shape.
No need for presents just yet. Save up for when she becomes your official girlfriend and then spoil her to death.
Goodluck.
2006-12-10 18:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by petetabingo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 08:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont overkill on the first date. i suppose a small present can be given. like a little stuffed bear (but not those with words like "i love you"). i usually like to walk around with my date, and if we come across a small shop/stall selling trinklets, let her choose a cute one (like those small glass figurines) and buy one of each.
the most important is to give a good first impression. so dont look over or under dressed for the date. and never be late. if you go someplace make sure you got reservations and you got the transport to get you there on time. it's the little things that make or break a date, assuming everything went well.
communicate well. dont pressure yourself cos its a date and you change from your usual way to try and impress. be normal
2006-12-10 18:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by lsl4x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, if you've never been out with her before... there is no need for a present and whatever you do, do NOT tell her you love her... Just take her to dinner and talk... when you FIRST see her, tell her she looks nice... other that that, do not tell her how much you like her. You don't want to overwhelm her with your feelings for her. If dinner with her goes well, tell her you'd like to see her again. You have to move slowly. Good luck
2006-12-10 18:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by graduatecj08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring her a fluffy tedy bear. and maybe some flowers, it dosent matter how old you are. girls love that kind of stuff.
A fun night at a bowling alley or mini-golf corse will ALWAYS be better than some overpriced dinner..
some girls prefer to remain IN and watch a movie... you decide.
2006-12-10 18:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know how much she consumes your thoughts
and no do not give her a present on the first date. it will lead her to think she can expect that from you all the time
2006-12-10 18:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by velveeta00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you sound like you are 14 so heres my answer. dont dare tell her you love her cause you dont hardly know her. that will scare her away. plus if you are as young as you sound then you dont know what love is. just take her out and ask her if she would like to go out again sometime. no presents either. its easy
2006-12-10 18:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋