taurus character??

Question

hi guys. i have a funny question..
im a taurus. i somehow quite believe in horoscope.
im quite possesive, paranoid and only wan my gf to be with me.
i dislike her talking to other guys, unless i know the guy too.
i only wan to be with her and would call off all meeting with my frenz unless its really close and impt frenz.
i would always check her handphone and msn to see if she is flirting with other guys.
ya and my gf broke up cuz she cant stand it?
is this normal??
is there anyone out there like me???
am im a wierdo????

hmm i see tat a lot says i don trust her
but ya she actually betrayed me b4 but not as in having sex with other guys
and we're having long dist relationship
and i was cheated by my ex, i mean ex ex

oh btw, pls read my other Q, so u guys understand y i ask this Q..thx for the help ppl

Answer 1

if u recognize what u did to drive her off then ur not a weirdo. u're just scared of lossing someone that u care and want. this becomes an uncommon act of crossing boundaries like checking her msn and phone and all. but u shouldn't i can see why she left. if she stayed with u for a while and put up with it then she really liked u and probably wasn't cheating on u. she probably got fed up with u not trusting her. Thats a huge issue with anyone when it comes to u continually if at all invading someones' privacy to see if they are lying to you.

My ex fiancee is a taurus but he wasn't that much into what u did but close. We didn't break up because of that though. I will give u some insight on the jealous thing with women. A little jealously showns can be cute but a lot is definately questionable. A long period of it might make them fleet. Hope it helps but spend time building friendship first since you have a huge trust issue.

Answer 2

i am a taurus. but i think it is not normal to blame our own insecurity on the zodiac signs. :) it is true that as a taurus, i like to spend a lot of time with a boyfriend (when i have one that is). and perhaps it is normal to feel a bit disturbed or unhappy that other people talk to our partner as we feel a bit jealous that they may feel happy talking to others. but this is something that you have to learn to live with, that in this world there isnt just u and her. just because u cancel all your appointments for her, doesnt mean u have the right to expect that she will show u her love and devotion by following suit. and dear, checking up on a person's handphones and msn etc is akin to stalking and shows that u dont trust her at all. and i guess it is also expected that she broke up with u.

but u also ask if there is anyone out there like u, i guess there are. my cousin's ex-fiancee is like that, and she broke off her engagement.

please try and learn to trust someone that u love, even if u are just trying to protect your heart. if not, u are in danger of becoming an obsessive person.

Answer 3

You are not weird.
You just have ur own character.
Everyone has got some setbacks in their own characters.
However, you need to change at least some of it!!
Checking her on her phone and msn is a bit to the extreme. You can have a talk with your girlfriend abt wat you dislike and you like then if she is your girlfriend you need to trust at least a bit!!
Girl's character is that they dont want to be suspected especially when they dont do anything wrong.
When you couple up with someone make it clear of wat you expect in a realationship and then trust her dont let urself overcontrol the relationship.

Answer 4

okay... heres the deall.... the obsessiveness is okay to a certain extent.

i think its really cute when my bf wants to make sure im not flirting or whatever... it shows that he really likes me...
but if he is like TOTALLY obsessive of me... its a little weird and slightly annoying...

my bf broke up with me about 2 months ago because he "needs space" but i totally wasnt obsessive or anything, so i think it depends on the person...
I HOPE I HELPED!!
Good Luck!
<33tay

Answer 5

yes it's normal she would tell you to go fly a kite.
Unfortunately there are alot of guys that act like jerks.
And you obviously need to get a life and some self esteem and quit trying to control other people when you can't get your head straight.

Answer 6

i dated a guy just like that. it got so annoying i finally broke it off after a year, so quit it. seriously. you're a taurus, but you're acting like a cancer. possesiveness in a guy ain't cool. it may be a sign of insecurity. or something else you lacked in your childhood. but seriously, quit being gay.

Answer 7

i think you're so insecure and paranoid that you are holding her too much... thats why she broke up with you.. you dont really trust her.. its just normal to be possessive sometimes.. but not that too much..

Answer 8

im a taurus and that is not normal and you're letting your past interefere with your current relationships, which like this one, will hurt them.

Answer 9

no nothing abnormal at all some are more protective and need more attention than others. but you need to be more flexible it seems like you dont trust her

Answer 10

No!! Thats normal thing with all taurians!