i think am in love with my boyfriends brother and i love him more than the boyfriend. situations have caused this since my boyfriend has been far and kinda withdrew his attention from me and it led me into the arms of the bro who i think feels the same that i do. should i just call the guy and tell him its over and i have found another guy who is his brother or what should i do. am confused because i am scared of what might happen, how will he take it, and how the two brothers will handle it. am soo confused
2006-12-10 18:09:11 · 8 answers · asked by sonai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Geez girl...you have to end it with the bf if your in love with someone else, its just not fair on him. But don't go after his bro straight away cause it could destroy the bro's relationship with each other. Not too mention absolutely destroy him. Give it some time after the break up and be by yourself for a while. After some time if u still have feelings for the bro talk to him and your bf (ex). You cant be with the bro behind your bf's back cause thats just wrong.
2006-12-10 18:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in love with the bro then you'd better break up wit the guy coz if you're to stay with him you'll be seeing the bro regularly and your feelings will only grow stronger with time esp when you have differences with your boyfriend. At that time it might be too late for you. So my advice to you is to go for what you want now that you still have the chance.
2006-12-11 02:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for u to do is to not leave him for his brother. cause they are brothers and they grew up together they have been around each other longer then u have. don't stop their relationship just because u want to start a new one. u have to think about this situation on both sides. what if u start talking to the brother and he no longer wants to talk to u, then he and his brother is no longer talking. think about your boyfriends feelings before u do that.
2006-12-11 02:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by nates_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should walk away from them both. If his brother is in love with you too its a viloation of an unwritten code.....you shal not fall in love with your brothers girl. You don't want someone who would do something like that to a family member anyway...imagine what he would think he could get away with if you weren't related to him.
2006-12-11 02:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by alwayssmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave them along your just going to break up there family and his parents r going to think of you as a h*@ and you'll never be happy with the second brothe rso get out while you can trust me run for the hills
2006-12-11 02:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by killabee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the brother loves you, let him talk to his brother and see how he feels about him dating you, if he is O.K. with it, go for it you are not married to him.
2006-12-11 02:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by bigslick60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow brutal.. ur gonna have to break up with your bf but you can't go for his brother especially if they're close.. thats just wrong
2006-12-11 02:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave both of them immediately. WTF are you even thinking you want to break his heart and ruin his relationship with his brother. Good luck on Springer
2006-12-11 02:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋