Here's the problem I'm having, I like this girl that I work with, but I'm thinking she doesn't like me as more than a coworker by her actions. I know, I know, you can't make someone like you...so if I work with her and see her everyday, is there anyway to get over liking her? Does ignoring someone get them to notice you more?
2006-12-10 18:06:49 · 4 answers · asked by mikee5432 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be your natural, truthful self around her. If she likes what she sees, she will let you know. If not, then it wasn't meant to be.
I don't think there is a way of getting over liking her. You could ruin a friendship, if she thinks you don't like her. Take the friendship for now. Take it slow and don't make your expectations too high.
I never thought playing hard to get ever worked. Be yourself. Be truthful to yourself and her.
Good luck !!!
2006-12-10 18:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by flyinghawk0727 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, ignoring them to make them notice you more: doesn't work. But chances are that if you ignore them, eventually you will get over them... Usually happens with people you don't have a history with, methinks.
2006-12-10 18:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ignore her. Thats stepping away from what you want. You want her to notice you, so show your personality to her whether it be sensitive or manly. They want to see it, but not all of it.
2006-12-10 18:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Chi78 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem with ignoring is that its no good if you do it alone!!!
If all of you start ignoring her then she willl be bothered....but if you alone do it then she will not bother if she doesnt like you!!!
2006-12-10 18:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by Moy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋