i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months because well i just wasnt feeling it anymore...were are too different of people...hes quite and calm and im loud and spontaneous so it just doesnt work...well i really hurt his feelings but he said he can still be friends with me...and he called me and asked how i was and i said good and how are you and he said good...well now i want to call him or maybe text him to let him know im thinking about him but only as a friend and i still care about him and want him to be happy...but again just as a friend...what should i say or text?
2006-12-10 18:03:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be normal while talking to him at the moment.
Later on go to so Psychologist for correction of your nature for the rest of your life.
2006-12-10 18:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Atif Mirza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should text him the phone number of a single friend of yours! Just kidding (well, it really isn't such a bad idea). But seriously, there isn't much you can say to make things better. From what you say, he is hurt too badly. I think it would help if you could hook him up with another girl, but make sure she's a good person and not too bad looking either. Other than that, I think it might help for you to just keep hanging out with him persistently. Don't lead him on, but be there for him and help him come out of his shell. He sounds like he might need a few good friends. Good night!
2006-12-11 02:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get crazy. I am guessing you are young and I have been there. I was with the same guy from 15 until 21 and it was hard. I knew it was time to end it and though he told me we could never be friends.....it is 15 years later and we still talk and have other relationships we are much happier with! Just give it time! You know in your heart what is right and it will all work out!
2006-12-11 02:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by bubblingbroo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just broke up with him then it's too early to be talking again because feelings are still there. Take a break from eachother. Don't talk to him or text him just yet. Wait it out for a while
2006-12-11 02:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by morningstr21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him like you would to any friend. If you don't act strange about it, he won't act strange about it. Just talk like how you would with any friend. I seen good friendships go bad because the guy or girl always makes the "lets stay as friends" part awkward. And there is nothing wrong to tell your friend your thinking about him or caring for him. Friends stick together always. Through thick and thin.
2006-12-11 02:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by Chi78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell him that you care for him only as a friend...just as what he told you before (still friends, right?) . Its okay if you call or text him...just dont be too caring and sweet if you really dont want to lead him into thinking that you want him back.
2006-12-11 02:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by jet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that you should text him as yet, the breakup is too new, and chances are feelings are still there, give it a break for a while, maybe later on , one day randomly, you can call to say "hey" or "how are you", but right now it's too soon. good luck!
2006-12-11 02:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by EbBz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just reply/ answer with how was ur day and how r u. if he replies back with more than a one word answer and he goes into it like he did when u were together thats fine if u want a deeper friendship. if u want the buddy-relationship feel don't ask beyond those questions right now. try that and see how it works.
2006-12-11 02:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by River23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was only 3 months, it's not like you had an entire life together. Just move on and leave the guy alone.
2006-12-11 02:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont contact him for a day and in that time think deeply where does he stand in your life. as afriend or more than tht. you know opposites do attract each other and they are better partners if they dont try to change each other and remain different all their life. so just think and then ask this question again tommarow.ok good luck
2006-12-11 02:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by angelic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋