We use to go out heaps....to movies, lunches...once had dinner, and also the coffee after work etc....we use to always laugh etc...she also use to touch me alot....all this went for awhile, and she started opening up to me again lately, and im happy bout this....But she got out of a relationship about 3 weeks ago.....but we use to hang before that aswell....but after we hung out more...she use to say things like "im going to get a real hot girlfriend"...and used to ask "what type of girl i'd liked"....i didnt want to make the move cause i didnt want to become the rebound, and she got annoyed i think and stop txtn, and lessen conversation for awhile....shes back to normal now. We had a good chat...and she said that her mates have all come clean and said that they actually like her!....theres like 4 of them....and i asked if she liked any of them....she said i dont know?.....is she telling me to ask her already>????,.........i dont wnna lose out on her..whats should i do for know...???
2006-12-10 17:32:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your just a "friend"
2006-12-10 17:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by klixmaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
particularly than leaping in on the deep end like that why no longer commence off a communication to work out once you've any common intrests. If she isn't fascinated, she isn't fascinated and he or she wont be drawn right into a lengthy communication. If she is satisfied to search for suggestion from from you, and is searching you "open" questions which require a communication particularly than "closed " questions, or one note solutions then i'd bypass on and enable her understand you want her yet in an quite diffused mannor. Smile at her enable her understand she has wonderful eyes or hair, yet dont be finished on as you need to come for the time of as determined, which isn't good. Its extra perfect to take a at the same time as perchance discover out if she is a member of bebo/facebook or myspace so that you'll chat on-line, if she is a member and satisfied to grant you her training the probabilities are severe she likes you. it may preclude face if she isn't providing you with good vibes. Be cool and he or she will be in a position to discover you extra alluring.
2016-11-25 20:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by desantiago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for? Ask her out already. What's the worst that could happen? She say no. Think of it this way... If you ask her, you have a chance. If you don't ask her, you'll never have a chance. Very rarely do women make the first move. Just do it.
Good luck. Let me know what happens.
2006-12-10 17:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ballagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the plunge! before its too late and you are stuck wondering "what if" for the rest of your life. the worst, and i mean the very worst that could happen is that she could say that she dosen't share those feelings with you. that stings, but it goes away, and who can blame you for trying to be with someone who you genuinely care so much about? even if shes not intrersted in you like that she will be flattered that you adore her, and admire the courage it takes to tell her that. it looks like a win/win situation to me.
2006-12-10 17:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Shameus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to feel out what you think about her by metioning the boys so if you really want to be with her ask her out fast before she gets the wrong idea from you and goes out with one of the other guys.
2006-12-10 17:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out already! If what you are saying is true then this girl is sending you signals like crazy and you are rejecting her! Take her somewhere nice tell her your feelings!
2006-12-10 17:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel the worse thing that could happen is she'll say she dont feel the same way and then you guys can just go back to normal
good luck
2006-12-10 17:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude seriously ask the dam girl already she is only telling you that she wants to see you with another girl so that she does not look desperate or not to bring attention to herself she wants you to ask her all the signs points to yes so do it lol.
2006-12-10 17:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by swwetness88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the movie Just Friends, cause thats your situation
2006-12-10 17:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by jglassdude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she wants you to ask her and you dont then you'll lose her. if you do ask her and she doesnt want you to then you'll lose her. it seems like either way you will lose her so do what you heart tells you too. i say ask her out
2006-12-10 17:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have feeling for her, why not ask her right out. Honesty has never done me any wrong.
2006-12-10 17:39:21 · answer #11 · answered by Magus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋