I was in a very long relationship that has just ended, and, well, I'm single again! but i've never really dated before; I've went strait from strangers to boyfriend/girlfriend w/ the one guy... And I feel akward about it and would appreciate any tips. Especially guys... how do i give guys the impression I'm worth dating, and then how do you expect me to act on the date? (btw I'm 18)
2006-12-10 17:22:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it's a question of if you're worth dating. Guys are always looking for that special someone. Let them know you're out and on the prowl looking for Mr. Right. Be spontaneous. Be outgoing. Be flirtatous. Be mysterious. Be fun.
Be all those things and you'll find a guy worth dating, not the other way around. :)
2006-12-12 05:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by Steven J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to impress other guys by just keeping yourself looking good. Buy a new outfit, perfume, or just change something. Maybe dye your hair. A change can help a girl drastically sometimes for the good, or sometimes for the bad. But its worth a shot. Let guys know you are worthy by being aprecciative of them and doing nice things to let them know you do have a caring side and its about them. Just give guys attention. Thats all we really want sometimes.
Well, best of luck in your dating search.
2006-12-10 17:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Brad F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to realize that as far as hooking up, the woman has all the power, its all just a matter of finding a decent guy and sending him a smile or strike up a conversation about his shirt or something. Don't rely on your friends because if a guy is worthwhile they'll want him for themselves and push you away. Just remember that women are only on the planet to try and impress other women.
2006-12-10 17:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by jglassdude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Stay available. Do not make the mistake of getting in another permanent relationship. Enjoy being single, see what or who's out there. You don't have to be promiscuous, just be patient and find mister right not mister right now.
2006-12-10 17:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by tomcat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my addvise is go on at least 3 dates before you start "dating" him and dont kiss him till the third date this way he knows your not a dirty girl and you know hes ot a dirty guy (no dirty guy will wait till the third date for a single kiss) but make sure ...3 dates i dont care how cute he is.
good luck!
2006-12-10 17:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by angelgodz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be yourself... don't throw yourself at anyone.. but don't hold back.. i'm hoping you've got good self-esteem.. from my experience guys like girls who are comfortable in their shoes.. and take your time.. don't rush into things.. especially because this is 'new' to you.. i have a friend who claims to always want to take her time.. but ends up rushing into things.. within the first twwo weeks they have sex.. she talks about marriage and family.. and they run away... do NOT rush things..
and always make them respect you.. i'm not sure what your virginity status is.. but just because you were in a long relationship.. and [possibly lost yours] doesn't mean you HAVE to continue giving yourself to whoever comes by.. they will love you when they can respect you.. i'm only a year older than you.. but i speak from experience.. from what i've seen in my own life.. and my friends.. let them know that you care about your life.. they will care as well =] good luck!!
2006-12-10 17:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are worth dating, the guys will come.
And when you are on your date, just be yourself.
To act any other way would be phony and is a recipe for disaster.
2006-12-10 17:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be your self and have fun,
2006-12-10 17:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋