Will I ever get a good guy? I'm good on the inside. is it possible? just lookin' for random opinions. no I don't have low confidence. Just came to terms w/my unattractiveness.
2006-12-10 17:21:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok just cause of some of the answers I'll say, I Do do my makeup, I DO dress nice and I take care of everything. I'm just not pretty.
2006-12-10 17:29:47 · update #1
pz I do get my hair done. I get it done like every 2 months. I get it cut, I get a reconstruction treatment, and I get highlights. like I said I do everything I'm supposed to do. I'm just not pretty LOL
2006-12-10 17:49:45 · update #2
Be yourself and someone, somewhere will recognize that incredible spirit and personality you have.
Its not looks its the fact of having to make choices and decisions that can change your life, and doing them daily together as a couple, whether married or dating.
Hope This Helps
Merry Christmas
-GarySomers
2006-12-10 17:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by imgarysomers 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As they say - "That which is beautiful is not always good, but that which is good is always beautiful..."
While physical appearance is a part, it is not the sole reason for attraction (since there are many guys who find "good looking" women intimidating). There is also the fact that different guys find different things attractive. Despite what is presented in the media and women themselves believe, men aren't THAT fussy. An attractive personality and a sense of humour will trump physical appearance more often than not. Just keep looking, and ignore the superficial monkeys out there who can't see past the surface...
(On the other hand, if you have an ugly personality, you might want to do something to remedy that. Beauty may be skin deep, but ugly goes right the way through...)
2006-12-11 02:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are your own worst enemy. I have lived long enough to feel I have seen everything pretty much. Go to a great stylist and get your hair the right cut and color for your face and skin. If you start working on your appearance you will definitely start to feel better. Read books to find out why you obsess so negatively on your appearance. Don't compare yourself to those phony photos of actresses. I have seen a lot of different types of people pair off. That is what makes the world go around. Many of the less attractive girls from school can grow and blossom into really attractive women.
2006-12-11 01:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
"One man's trash is another man's gold"
i used to tell myself these whenever i felt ugly or unloved. i also used to want to be with the popular jock just cuz he was really hot. But he was a jerk so i found a guy that's may not be considered georgeous to some but he is to me and he's really sweet! There is a guy out there that will someday say the same about you! Guys love confidence and it sounds like you are doing good in that department so don't worry, some day your "prince" will come along :)
2006-12-11 01:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by plyby_bnny_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love confidence. But don't talk about the fact that you think you are unattractive, and don't settle! Find a guy that likes you all the time make-up no -make-up, sick or well. They are out there trust me i got one. And NEVER be afraid to flirt.
2006-12-11 01:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but i have to tell you honestly if you think that you are hideous, how do you want for someone else to find you attractive? You have to make an effort, find something that you like about yourself, yes even physically and focus on that part...work it!
if you really cant find something, fix it even with make up..don't be afraid to go to the store and ask for beauty tips. Feel good about yourself !
There must be something pretty about you( your eyes, your hair or your lips? something that you receive compliments about?)...come on help us..help you...
2006-12-11 01:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by maliciaxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl calling her self a chick!!! wow. Well, I think whatever you are, believe there is somebody out there for you type. A girl may be attractive and doll and a guy may not like her coz f this. A girl may have one quality and does not have the other. there are different kinds of guys.
2006-12-11 01:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by fine boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean i guess it depends on how unattractive you are. itd be nice to say that looks dont matter but honey in this world that not the way it is. put on some makeup or something. try to make urself look a little bit better.
2006-12-11 01:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A truly good guy will appreciate your inner qualities.
Just keep being a good girl and somone will notice.
Besides, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2006-12-11 01:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel good about how you look go get a make over, new clothes...and as long as you have a good heart, you just be yourself, and you will find Mr. Right...
2006-12-11 01:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋