My husband cant seem to get excited! and my moodiness is driving him nuts. He promised me he would never leave me when I needed him, but apparently, I'm just annoying to him. I keep crying because he didnt kiss me good bye when he left. And I keep reminding him about his promise. Am I making it worse? What can I do to make it better for both of us? I dont want to sound too needy and too emotional. We have 5 pg tests that say I"m pregnant but he tells people that I might be. The dr. confirmed it. but he's in denial?
He is also going through the stress of getting our house situated and his new business started. Should I just keep hush about baby stuff until he clears his mind?
Didnt I say it....Very Emotional...hehe.
2006-12-10 17:13:27 · 5 answers · asked by Laurellamags 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
your husband has a lot on his plate and needs you more than he knows. Do not mention the baby,he is not ready. Romance him with his favorite meal, clean house and lots of candles. Have his bath ready for him and offer to wash his back, it could lead to so much more. By the way keep conversations light. You in the end will be happier to.
2006-12-10 17:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the exact same way the first couple of weeks of my pregnancy. I was very emotional. That was one of the first pregnancy signs for me. I knew sumthing was up when I cried over stupid stuff, like hubby just going to the neighbors house for a few minutes lol. In time it should pass. At least for me it did. But came back after I had the baby..but that's a whole nother topic lol. And your husband is probably excited, just dont know how to show it. He's probably also scared about having a baby. Try to sit down and talk to him about it. Good luck
2006-12-10 17:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by bluesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in denial a little bit. Give him some time alone sweetie. So he can cope with it. He'll come to terms on his own.
As far as your concerned, being emotional is natural. I know your think what the hell about this is natural? Right? I was very very emotional with my first girl. Not as much the second time.
It's okay.There's nothing wrong with you! Just find a sad movie to watch or a romantic one. That way it won't feel like you're crying your eyes out for nothing!
He loves you very much. You two wouldn't be married if he didn't!
2006-12-10 17:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by Caffiene Junkie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME GUYZ HAVE WAY DIFFERENT EMOTHIONS THEN WE DO THEY THINK IF WE ARE EMOTIONAL WE ARE NEEDY. I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM WITH MY BOYFRIEND WHEN I WAS PREGNANT I JUST FELT LIKE HE REALLY DIDN'T WANT TO GET INVOLVED HE DIDN'T WANT TO FEEL THE BABY KICK AND SO I GOT EMOTIONAL AND CRIED TO HIS DAD. BUT WHEN I WENT INTO LABOR HE WAS THE BEST CHEERLEADER I COULD HAVE ASK FOR AND WHEN SHE CAME OUT HE STARTED TO CRY AND HE JUST SAID BEAUTIFUL. IT WILL HIT HIM AND HE WILL BE SWEET.
WE GET HIT WITH THE MORNING SICKNESS AND MOOD SWINGS BUT THEY GET HIT WITH OH **** WHAT DO I DO NOW. THEY FEEL THEY HAVE TO SHOW US THAT THEY ARE THE MEN AND THEY WILL WORK THEMSELVES TO DEATH TO PROVIDE FOR THE FAMILY
2006-12-11 04:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by Km 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~He'll come around. I was very emotional too. If you hold back your feelings, I think it would be worse.
My husband didn't believe me at first either. Not because he didn't want it, he just didn't want to get his hopes up.
I wouldn't tip toe around him. Don't worry about him, just take care of yourself, it's important early in pregnancy to be healthy.
Congrats~
2006-12-10 18:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋