this guy is totally cool. I am attracted to his personality (we talk on the phone for hours). I see him about once a week, and i am completely attracted to his body that is all but his face. I kno this may seem extremely shallo but i can't help it. I totally love talking to him and all that jazz. I would want to date him except for that reason, plus i was his first sober kiss and some. I kno hes totally into me, as am i but i can't bring myself to want a relationship with him. What should i do
2006-12-10 16:53:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he'll turn out to jus be a good friend to turn to...see how things go and try to find out how he feels about you...then go from there! Good luck!
2006-12-10 16:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Christa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're more worried about what how other people will judge you when you're together with him.
So are you attracted to him? Yes. Are you embarresed about it? Yes.
The only thing thats going to help you solve this is getting older. Everntually you'll look back on this question 5 or 10 years from now and laugh at yourself.
Good times.....
2006-12-10 16:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Hypnotica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i no what u mean ....im a vein person to, as much as we don't like to admit it we are ...for some strange reason looks in the face are very important to some people like u and me , and for others they just don't care
its odd.
i tried to date an ugly guy i just couldn't do it and it felt wrong even tho he had a hot body when i looked at him i felt sick
so my advice forget about him if ur not attracted to him then its not gonna work out ur better off being friends
coz if u ever did date him or what ever then when u saw a really cute guy some wear ud wish u were with him
2006-12-10 17:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My girlfriends have been through this as well...if you really like him try to stick it out. You talk so highly of him and you've kissed him and all so maybe you'll get over it. But just remember how he feels. Your stringing him along to possibly break his heart. You need to think if you can live w/this or not.
2006-12-10 16:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's incredibly shallow and heartless. This guy is completely into you, and you know it. He probably feels that he actually has a chance with you, but he's not good-looking enough.
Stop talking to him. Be polite about it, but end it. He deserves to spend his time and conversation with someone who wants to be with him. It will probably be your loss, but...so what? You don't want a relationship with him anyway. Just be kind about it.
2006-12-10 17:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you kissed him he can't be that bad, it is probably your friends that you think will not aprove of him. Just don't take him around your friends until you feel comfortable with him. And if you love him, it does not matter what someone else think.
2006-12-10 17:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by bigslick60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your really into someone, everything is beautifull.
you dont see imperfections when you care that much about someone, you just see the beauty that is them.
having said that, i think this guy is suited to be a great friend, but nothing more.
dont lead him on.
2006-12-10 16:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by william h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are not attracted to him that may not pose an immediate problem but sooner or later it will be a disaster.....attraction is very important...it is the initial step to any relationship....
2006-12-10 16:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by jen4802051709 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over it and give the guy a try
2006-12-10 16:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT HE SHOULD DO IS LEAVE YOU ALONG YOU ARE
A VERY SHALLOW PERSON. AND I WOULD NOT WANT
A REALTIONSHIP WITH YOU. SINCE YOU REALLY DONT
'WANT TO BE WITH HIM THEN BE HONEST WITH HIM AND
TELL HIM THAT,
2006-12-10 16:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋