i think ill be a 40yr old virgin, lol...kidding, but yeah, im a litttttle bit late...never even been on a date! haha
2006-12-10 16:51:48 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your 18 you have plenty of time! just be yourself and a guy worth kissing will come along just you wait. :)
2006-12-10 16:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Atllas 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well honey don't be drafted into the crowd thinking that you have to do things that everyone has at a certain age. You need to settle down and think about what is the right time for you. Don't think because everyone of your friends or potential friends has done it before or you are late or even weird. You aren't, you just did more important things or wasn't ready and knew it. Just like every smart young woman should do. A lot of young girls get into relationships because their older sister or brother or even cousin or friend is in a realtionship. These things are to be prepared for, disappointment and pretty memorable, special surprises that life has to offer. Hell life has a lot offer but don't worry life has a lot instore for you no matter what time you get there you could never be too late because that moment is just for you. It's not like a sale that you have to rush to get to so that you would get some of the good stuff. What is for you can only be for you. Take your time in life and think about every decision you make especially the ones that would have a permanent effect on your life. Good luck with starting out...
P.S Get a kick out of this one you won't have to worry about getting pregnant or even being pushed into sex or getting any STDs. Just a little BUZZ in the ear Aids is real okay so be very aware and careful out there.
2006-12-10 17:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ur not going to be the next 40yr old virgin!!! Just take it slow and drop a few hints so that ppl will know that ur available. And have u thought of internet dating cause my big sister is a little chubby and she was in a bbw site and there she met her actual husband and she was just like u, never been kissed ! So don't worry !!!
2006-12-10 17:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by vintage flowers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to be a 40 year old virgin. Relax! You're 18! You've got plenty of time to date, kiss, and find Mr. Right. Most men would probably be fond of the fact that you're not all promiscuous and been around the block a few times. To me, you sound shy and sometimes shy is OK.
2006-12-10 17:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of time for love!
I would check some signals here.
First, find some people who really look good, and have them do a makeover on you, or at least make sure you're doing all you can with the looks that God has given you.
Second, you might... and I say "might"... look for some counseling if you have troubles forming relationships.
It would indeed be a tragedy to wake up a 40 year old virgin...
2006-12-10 17:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by geek49203 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol. I used to joke around with some of my friends about my ending up being a 40 y/o virgin, too.. since I didn't do any of those things either... and I'm 23.
I wouldn't rush it if I was you.. I happen to have met someone who turned out to be a really great guy. I'm sure you will, too.
2006-12-10 17:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, your not alone. You just haven't found the right guy yet. Trust me, don't waste your first kiss with someone you don't really care about. Who knows, maybe your first kiss will end up being the one. It doesn't matter how old you are, be happy that you haven't gotten used and hurt like some other girls do.
He's out there! Just keep your eyes open!
Good Luck!
2006-12-10 16:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by short n sweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like Ur FOCUSING too much on ur self.
U should be focusing on the GUYS.
Even in the question u have not mentioned any guy whom u had a fancy for.
Seems like u r not giving the guys the looks, the vibs, the smiles for him to approach u.
If u have a good figure, let it show through tight or low cut dresses.
Highlight ur features, ur assets.
It should be like the homming signal for the guys to rush towards & land.
Dating has its own pitfalls, betrayal, tears, etc. Ready to take the pain for the gain?
2006-12-10 17:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by jack 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
18? thts practically a baby u know. the time will come... we are human beings with feelings and not rabbits (not to say that rabbits dont have feelings...). it is much better to kiss someone u totally into, and to share your intimate moment with the person u care about. first times of anything is always sticky, so its best that u at least trust and feel comfy with the person. so that when u look back in 20-30-40 years time, u look back with fondness and not squirms or embarressed giggles.
:)
2006-12-10 16:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by jiwaku79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love and expecialy intamacy are very mysterious things wether your 18 or 48 it can be dificult to get but like all things when you are ready for it it will happen when you are so you dont have to feel like you need to rush it it will happen for you eventuly just untill then enjoy life me i dident get any serious relationship till i was 21 and now im married so just because you dont get the start you want it still can turn out for the better keep that in mind
2006-12-10 16:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by bigboypo249 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever see that movie "Never Been Kissed"? I think Drew Barrymore is in it. It's really funny and it will also let you know that you are normal and it's worth waiting for the right man to come along. I have it and you would be welcomed to come over and watch it with me. Ok, so we don't know each other. Maybe you should rent it instead.
2006-12-10 16:57:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋