Oh man. okay this guy i met like a couple of weeks ago (he's hot), we hooked up pretty quickly actually, and he walked over to me held my hand and we started talking. We basically kissed and cuddled all night and into the morning hours. He said to me that he didn't wanna lose me and he asked for my number, i of course couldn't resist and gave it to him. we text all week, we were going to meet up again and he said that he couldn't wait to see me again. But later that same week he messaged me from his mates phone saying that he has no credit left on his phone and that he'd talk to me later, i was like all fine with that until he stopped messaging me completely. Now i don't know what the hell went wrong, everything was going good. Now i feel like crap, i didnt think him the kinda guy who would be this cruel!. I am dating someone else at the moment but i still find myself thinking of him. How do i get over him, I just need to forget about him but don't know how, pls help!! thank you....
2006-12-10 16:49:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I AM CURRENTLY DATING SOMEONE ELSE!! so there is no need to say i need to start dating because even though i am with another guy i cant get over my previous one, thats what i need help with.
2006-12-10 16:56:24 · update #1
men are all the same
2006-12-10 16:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by sergnaty 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Next time, don't be so quick to start kissing and cuddling some guy you barely know. If he really didn't want to lose you, he'd would have found a way to stay in contact...or wouldn't have lied about not having enough credit on his phone. He played you and now it's over.
You've already moved on to someone else.
There's nothing for you to get over; your ego is a little bruised, but that's about it. He's a guy, and this is one of those things that guys do. It was unrealistic for you to think that he was being honest with you.
2006-12-10 16:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you???
If you're in high school (or earlier) then this is very normal stuff. People meet, kiss and cuddle, talk... and break up. This is normal and healthy behavior for that age. You're not supposed to act married -- you'll have decades to act married later in your life.
I think that sometimes it's easier to have hot feelings for someone that you barely know -- after all, you've not been with them long enough to have the pass gas in your presence... or have them get mad at something... or find out that they've got smelly feet... you get the idea?
For the record, I still have a crush on a girl that I knew in the 8th - 9th grade.... and I'm a very old guy now.
2006-12-10 16:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by geek49203 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my experience, the best way to get over someone is to focus on YOU. Start working (or work harder) on your own goals, such as training for a marathon, or writing a book, or redecorating your house, or whatever. Focus on your interests and fulfilling your own life needs.
It will be hard. These kinds of things are always hard. But it will be much harder if you don't have a goal to focus on. Just going to work and doing the daily grind is not focus. Find a new hobby, or join a club, or start a business. Something that will get you so focused in what you are doing, that you don't have time to think about him so much.
Good luck!
2006-12-10 16:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by TammyT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to friends and vent for a little time (maybe a week), if you can call him (I know that almost impossible), try and casually speak with him and find out what happened, just to get a closure.
To forget him - hit the gym, no better way of venting then on a treadmill. And you are with another person now, give him a good chance and you u'd be surprised how fast you will get over that other guy.
Good luck!
2006-12-10 16:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he just dont have money? just wait til he text again and we'll see how. from time to time, do message him hello, have a nice week, thinking of u or something. by the way, what about the guy u are dating? u r just dating him right? not like in a committed relationship? coz if u are, then u have a lot of things to think about here.
2006-12-10 16:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by jiwaku79 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get another is easy to said. So do you love him? Do you think he can be trusted? Did he look handsome? How far you know him?
If you did not know him and he is not handsome enough for you than just forget about it.
If not than try to check where he leave and get to know him from his friend more before you get lose contact with him.
If just a stranger than you just not knowing him well, so do not waste your time. Get another and besure this time get the address of him staying.
2006-12-10 16:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by pdq1450 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHY DO YOU CARE IF YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE ELSE
THEN IT REALLY SHOULD NOT MATTER AT ALL. BUT JUST
REMEMBER YOU WERE WITH THIS GUY FOR A COUPLE'
OF WEEKS. THAT SHOULD TELL YOU SOMETHING THAT
MAYBE YOU NEED TO TAKE IT A LOT SLOWER BEFORE
HOOKING UP WITH SOMEONE. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON
THEN YOU WONT FEEL LIKE THIS.
2006-12-10 16:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The person you are dating now may not be answering your sexual desires as you need a second one. Possiblly this new boy knew about you ,already dating a guy. CHOOSE ONE :)
2006-12-10 16:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Asad 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He met someone else. Most likely his plan was just to use you, so feel glad he probably met some other lady. You got off easy.
2006-12-10 16:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Start a new relationship.
2006-12-10 16:51:01 · answer #11 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋