i need some well-thought answers please. i have found a wonderful guy whom i'm really interested in and both of us are deeply in love. we believe both of us have found a perfect match in each other. but is it really possible or are we trying to make ourselves believe that we are made for each other?
2006-12-10 16:34:54 · 13 answers · asked by peacelover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe when we are really ready to settle down, we allow ourselves to believe in the possibilities that lay in front of us. If you never think of others, never have a curious mind about 'other guys,' then yes, it is very possible you may have found the one. Just be 100% and have no doubts in your mind about him. Those little doubts can snowball into bigger, nastier things. Have you both been hurt in the past and are seeking emotional shlelter from each other? Have either of you jumped from one relationship straight into this one? Ask each other WHY you REALLY both feel this way about one another. If you can answer these all openly, it may give you your answer.. Best advice is take your time! If your both as serious as you sound, time shouldn't be an issue for you both. Good luck!
2006-12-10 16:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by axix9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am with my 1st real boyfriend, and my 1st love. We are recently married. I look at him the same way I did when we started dating freshman year in high school (6 years ago), and I still get butterflies all the time. I look at him from a distance even when we are at home, and still want him. Something like I know he's mine, but I couldn't live without him feeling. For me I just feel a rush when he is around me. And I hate to be away from him.
You know on the inside what you think. Can you be away from him, and not long to be together. Could you picture being with him forever?
2006-12-11 00:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by mke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible either way. Are you getting that "too good to be true" feeling? You can never truly know someone until you live with them. Heh.
The perfect someone shares many of the same interests, has similar goals for the future, and a similar rate of success. And that tingly, super lovey warm and happy feeling comes along with it. Yum.
2006-12-11 00:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on individual. Everybody have different experiences in finding the right person in their life. If he is your right person, you will feel the warmth and the love that he is giving to you after both of you had been together for sometimes.
2006-12-11 06:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how the both of you are together as a whole how both of you feel and if he brings out the best in you as a person. happy happy people all around knew when i was with my bf or gonna see him i was happy happy gave good energy to all around me they felt this.. there are soulmates. we have more than one tho on earth but one we bed down with. others as friends etc.. time and the trials you both go thru the tests of things how you work it all out.. compatable.. the real freindship and joy.
2006-12-11 00:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't get a message painted across the sky or anything. You just know when this happens. You no longer need to ask this question.
2006-12-11 00:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love the way he is without trying to change him, and your happy with him all the time...if your happy it's going good...why ask why....
2006-12-11 00:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the right one makes you forget the world.
2006-12-11 00:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Broken ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you get used to him you will know that you have found the right person
2006-12-11 00:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by Zenon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For God's sake stop over-analysing and go with your gut feel.
It's going great, it feels great (mutually) so it is great.
Enjoy what you have till it lasts!
2006-12-11 00:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by pubali b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋