i am very shy and i have a hard time getting guys to notice me......but i look around and all i see are the freaky girls with boyfriends.....does this mean that i have to become a freak?.....opinions pls......
2006-12-10 16:34:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
even though you may be very shy, you can still be friendly with peope. If you are the type that looks at the ground as they walk, then try to walk with your head up. Try to smile and make eye contact to people. Though guys hate to admit it, many feel insecure about asking females out in fear of rejection. If your mannerism is one where you keep youself isolated from everyone, then no one will be able to talk to you. Anyone that displays a friendly welcoming attitude will attract the interest of others.. However if you are so shy that you like to avoid initiating contact with others, then you may be inadvertantly doing everything which makes you appear to be unapproachable. Smile at people and don't be afraid. Confidence in yourself is key. People may still notice you and be intrigued by you in some way. Being yourself doesnt mean that you need to look serious or unhappy.
2006-12-10 16:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by wildhair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 10:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have to be a freak, PLEASE... just be your self. Just put your name out a couple times, or try something different with your style or hair or something. You really shouldn't change your self just so others can notice or like you. Just be cool, be a rebel, but be energized and love living life. Trust me the attention will come yo you! Don't worry about what others think about you, and don't turn into something your not. Like a freak. Auight!!!! Most freaks have lost their purpose and Identity, KEEP YOURS! Just be cool!! Just try talking and expressing your self to guys. Just be like "whats up" every once in a while. Trust me something will stir inside of him about you.
2006-12-10 16:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw dont become a freak thats the last thing u wanna do.. if u sit next a cute guy or just a guy u might like to get to know.. say "hey whats up" or "u look good today" or ask him about homework
2006-12-10 16:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Bobby D - The Angels Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly helps, but you dont have to show the whole world...most guys like a girl who's freaky, but only when yall alone...dress the part, just dont BECOME the part...just cuz you dress like a whore doesnt mean you have to become one...keep ya dignity
2006-12-10 16:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by dolla4adutch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't need to change. Trust me on this, there is someone out there who is looking for someone like you who is not a freak.
2006-12-10 16:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by dulcrayon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if you want to gain a man's attention, you need to be visually stunning for a guy to talk to you. Remember cupcakes, guys are visual creatures. Wear something short and tight, and watch how many guy start talking to you. Unless you are fat and old, then you should not have a problem.
2006-12-10 16:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, be yourself because u only want someone who wants to be with u for u not for a guy who wants to be with a freak
2006-12-10 16:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not change yourself for a guy because they will fall in love with someone else and not you.
2006-12-10 16:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by pilljills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the club, i cant find women since im not an arogant jerk. but i can offer this advice, just dont change yourself, you might have to talk to a guy if your interested, dont wait for him to intiate conversation, go up and talk to him.
2006-12-10 16:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋