I want him to hang out with me and my family, we are such a warm, welcoming freindly family, and he only likes hanging out with just me. Is that weird? I guess he feels like he doesn't want to be judged by them, but I would love to meet his family.
2006-12-10 16:31:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sooner or later, he'll have to. Make it friendly
2006-12-10 16:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might just be cause he's to nervous or just not ready. My bf didn't want to meet my family either it took awhile but he finally did it. We have been dating for a year now and he still feels alittle weird around them but that's cause his family isn't the warming loving type but mine r. We love being around each other and spending time together, But he's gradually getting use to it and wanting to be around more and trying to get more involved with my family. Just give him time and reassure him the way ur family is so he won't be as nervous.
2006-12-10 16:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by =^..^=Mama Kitty=^..^= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think meeting the family sets a whole new level to a relationship, so meeting the family may be that next step that he's not ready for yet. I wouldn't push it. Just give it time. Sooner or later he will want to meet them and take that step.
2006-12-10 16:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by AshleyH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you have been together. If you have been together for 1 year or less, then it is not that unusual for your boyfriend to not want to meet your family. Most guys do not like meeting the family because it symbolizes that the relationship is getting more serious.
2006-12-10 16:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't like to meet families. It's always awkward and it makes me nervous. But if he plans on being with you for a long time, then he's gonna have to do it eventually.
2006-12-10 16:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got to meet them sooner or later, so he might as well get it out of the way, so it's not so weird for that long.
2006-12-10 16:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Tugon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He isn't serious about you...drop him...can you just imagine if you married this guy, you would be so bored...remember when your dating a guy, and he is one way, most likely he will stay that way after you marry...leave him, you would be happier if you have a guy that is easy going with you..and goes with the flow...
2006-12-10 16:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was like that too. Now that we are married he still doesn't want to go over for visits. I have to make him. I think its just a guy thing.
2006-12-10 16:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's embarrased by the way his family acts around others
2006-12-10 16:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think and investigate more about him, he may have communication problems or afraid that your parents find out something about his personality. (He may have problems, so do not relay on so easily)
2006-12-10 16:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by RGX 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋