On work days i throw on a pair of jeans and a reg shirt, but on other days i dress my tail off looking dabulous and i get compliments from everybody from men 2 women BUT my own man wont acknowledge me or compliment me. WHATS DA PROB!? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-10 16:08:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are that insecure with your appearance that you need constant reassurance then dump him and get a man who will do nothing but compliment you.
Get an injection of self confidence and stop relying on others to pump you up.
2006-12-10 16:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just point it out. Some guys forget what girls need to hear. If you say, "how do you think I look?" or "you haven't said anything about my outfit", he'll compliment you and catch on. You might have to remind him like this a couple times, and even tell him that you want him to acknowledge how you look when you dress up. If he figures out that that's what you want to hear, then he'll be complimenting you a lot more.
2006-12-11 00:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Gemini,
Sounds like you need to do some Christmas shopping for a new man. One who will appreciate you and tell you so.
He is making a fatal mistake, but probably doesn't have sense enough to know it, and he won't until he is on the outside looking in.
I am a Leo, and appreciate a Gemini woman, they are priceless and deserve to always be appreciated, and for all the times you looked stunning and were ignored, let me tell you, you were a sensory overload in every aspect.
Good question,
Darryl S.
2006-12-11 00:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by Stingray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry he may have some insecurity. Just keep on doing what you doing girl and get attention from someone who appreciates it and maybe homeboy will wake up. Some Men never realize what they have untill someone else appreciates it.
2006-12-11 00:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes not into looks or he doesn't think you look as great as you and others think you do find a new man if you want compliments and he doesn't give any
2006-12-11 00:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by topgunpilot22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i have that problem. sometimes i just say somethign like. "i feel cute or pretty today" then he usually gives me a compliment. he probably just thinks you look better wiht your clothes off like most men do....lol
buts its liek that wiht me too. i dont mind to much though if it does bother em then i say somethign liek that =)
2006-12-11 00:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start wearing sexier clothes, especially around his boyz too...he'll notice
2006-12-11 00:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by dolla4adutch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me when his birthday is and I can read him like a book, I can tell you his likes and dislikes and what he's like at work and more...of course there is a darker reason to his nature possiblely....but I won't go there it tends to get messy and I don't like violnce very much.
2006-12-11 00:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by The Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be nice t get affirmation from him that you look good but if he dosen't then screw him. You should be dressing up for you and if you think you look good then that's all that matters.
2006-12-11 00:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by dreamer2606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he seems not to notice. something may be bothering him about the way u dress and he doesn't want to say anything.
2006-12-11 00:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by tasha7682 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋