im not any of these things but I just want to know because some of my friends are. and also would it be attractive to have done these things
2006-12-10 16:06:18 · 23 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would not say it makes you any more attractive that is not one of the qualities i look for in a man but if he smokes cigs i guess i could deal considering i done it. IF he is an drinks often and is mean when he is drinking then no that would be a deal breaker for me but occasional drinker is OK. NO NO DRUGS i would not date a druggie. DOING THOSE THINGS IS NOT A QUALITY THAT GIRLS ARE LOOKING FOR.
2006-12-10 16:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last part of your question- dude, be yourself. It isn't attractive five years down the road if you mashed your brain into little pieces over a chance of getting some. If drugs isn't your thing, be strong enough to show people this. Being a weak follower is one thing, but having a back bone is what will get ya by in life.
And I have dated girls that where drinkers, smokers, and drug takers... Hell, I was one of them for a lost couple of years... Another failed seeker that Dr Gonzo would hold up high... But the thing is- you have to be comfortable with what ever the girl does. Be careful- a drug abuser abuses people too- don't get sucked into a trap... Be careful where you tread- and carry a big stick... Or crack pipe...
2006-12-11 00:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! A smoker would be the lesser of the evils but they stink and who wants to kiss a smokers mouth?? No, none of it is attractive and attracts all the wrong kind of people. These aren't friends, they are just someone to get high with.
2006-12-11 00:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Brianne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would date a social drinker....someone that doesn't get drunk constantly.....I wouldn't date a smoker just because I am really allergic to cigarette smoke....and I wouldn't date a druggy (however I would date a recovered drug addict) because I have seen what drugs do to people including some of my family.
2006-12-11 00:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No: Life if tough enough. Why ask for for trouble from the beginning? Besides, kissing a smoker is like kissing an ashtray.
2006-12-11 00:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by Tim E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kissing a smoker is like licking an ashtray. That's a good thing to remember the next time you are really lonely.
2006-12-11 00:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drinker...Social (1 or 2 drinks a week) only.
Drugy...ABSOLUTELY NOT!
Smoker...I have, but not for very long. I found kissing distasteful.
2006-12-11 00:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough.....it can turn into a serious problem later down the road....or if you are with someone who doesnt do those thigns, they might pick it up later down the road as well. Just be sure to be with someone who is strong, so they can overcome the addiction if it happens.
2006-12-11 00:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by confusedbrowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not attractive no, I dont' care if you smoke if you aren't a chimney. Drugs bug the hell out me, have trouble respecting people that do that....though I have friends that used to....but I didn't date them. I guess if they were a functional alcoholic I could handle that, but nothing else.
2006-12-11 00:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't date someone on drugs but I do the rest so I have no room to talk
2006-12-11 00:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋