i know he's not gay cuz he dated in 7th grade....i know he likes my crush, but he tries not to like anyone now....any ideas?
2006-12-10 16:01:10 · 7 answers · asked by closetman341 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he recently likes my cruch which likes me....she even knows
2006-12-10 16:04:18 · update #1
he's in the 8th grade now...sorry no clubs, but he won't let me find him a date anyway...i'm not trying to change him either.....im just concerned....cuz i think he cuts hisself....
2006-12-10 16:12:43 · update #2
Just because he dated in 7th grade doesn't mean he's not gay. But who cares...if he's gay, he's gay
2006-12-10 16:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just b cuz he dated in 7th grade does not mean he is not gay. Just b cuz others think he is gay should inhibit him from going out with girls. Tell him to get on-line and do the Yahoo singles or he can go to a singles club. There are lots of stuff out there that he can do. If he is shy he may need a friend to go with him.
2006-12-10 16:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by countsoss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he dated in 7th grade doesn't mean he's not gay. Maybe he just realized that he was gay. A lot of people don't realize it until they hit puberty (and older).
If he's really not gay and it bothers him that people think that, then he should try to get back into dating. (Even though that still might not help)
2006-12-10 16:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree that it doesn't mean he's not gay. My best friend dated (and had a sexual relationship) with a girl in high school from Sophomore to Senior year, but he told me he was gay before he even started dating her. But it was too risky to come out of the closet in high school, so he waited until he was in college.
It's not exactly common for someone to stop liking people because of what other people think. Sounds fishy. I have a feeling that your friend is at odds with his sexuality and doesn't know how to address it.
2006-12-10 16:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lunasea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go out with a guy, if that's what he wants, but not to give up all together. Who cares what people who are making fun say.
2006-12-10 16:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not going on dates isn't helping his situation very much....
Help him try to find a girl I guess.
2006-12-10 16:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by Dinner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE IS GAY? SO WHAT IF HE IS?
LET HIM BE WHO HE IS, YOU CAN'T CHANGE HIM.
2006-12-10 16:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~ISABELLA~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋