I asked my doctor about it. He laughed and said they like it but did not recommend it.
2006-12-10 15:57:13 · 41 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of us like it, but like anything else, it's ultimately your choice. It's always a nice gesture to have such favors returned if such is the case, but there are plenty of ways to please a woman, and that's only one of them.
2006-12-10 16:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you like getting laid, I'd recommend giving a little back. Otherwise, the women you are with are going to think you are a selfish lover.
Why do you think it's nasty? Did you try it on a woman who wasn't so good at cleaning her genitals? If that's the case, I can see that, but not all women are like that.
Besides, why wouldn't you want to see a woman writhing in pleasure at something you are doing?
Good luck to you, little man. I hope you never ask a woman to go down on you without returning the favor.
2006-12-10 16:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you should only do what you are comfortable with. But if you don't want to go "down there" She isn't going "south" for you either. And If the girl isn't nasty, neither is the act. But really it's in how you think and what you feel is acceptable. By the way, most girls like it. A Lot!! Your Dr. may not recommend it to you......but I bet he does it. I have seen DR.s with cigarettes in their pocket say it's good you don't smoke too. How old is your DR.?
2006-12-10 16:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your doc didn't recommend it? Was he old or what? Anyway back to your question, we do like it alot just like you like it when we do you. But see this is how I look at, do it to that one person you care about. you can't just be putting your head down on every couchie you meet. Thats not safe and it's nasty too.
I used to think it was nasty too and I still do think so still but I do it for that one guy I consider special. And it's not an everyday thing, you do it when you feel like it. Work up to it and once you convince yourself that you can do it then you do it. oh yeah, maybe right after she showers and sometimes u can use some condiments like whipped cream!
2006-12-10 16:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by africangirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Quite frankly,it is also not a very appetizing thought to do this for a guy either,however guys like it too.I would have to say that it's equally gross,but if you're really into someone,and they you,it becomes n equally pleasurable experience and should be practiced by both who enjoy it.Learn more about how to be a better sex partner by visiting;talksexwithsue.com.Maybe you will understand the meaning of becoming a good lover.Good luck.
2006-12-10 16:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He didn't recommend it? I don't believe you. Are you a man? If so, is it possible that you are gay? I'm not asking to be a prick, because you should really think about why a woman's genitals are so distasteful to you. Oral sex is "safer" than penetrative sex (which is why I don't believe that you chatted with a doctor about this). You are less likely to contract diseases from oral sex. I would also like to offer that people who don't like to give oral sex just don't know how to do it properly. Reading is really becoming a lost art. Acquire some knowledge coupled with experience. Though without a liking and talent for oral, you won't be having much fun in the bedroom in the near future.
2006-12-10 16:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by amyaliceco 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I bet you're the kind who has no problem with a girl "going down" on you. ;)
If you're uncomfortable about it, then don't do it.
It's actually very pleasurable for a lady, though. If you want to do something selfless for a gal you like, then this is a great way to do it. Don't worry, all the work you put in will be worth it when she turns it around on you.
2006-12-10 16:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by sir_camm 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you are pleasing someone you love...nothing is nasty. Typical guy, wants something done to him and doesn't want to return the favor. Make sure she's clean...that could be why you are turned off by it. You could have had a bad experience.
2006-12-10 16:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Ofie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on the woman that you're with. There's nothing wrong with performing oral sex on a woman if she is clean and healthy. You need to figure out what your hang-up is about and try working on it. Do you like when a woman goes down on you? You need to reciprocate sometimes, maybe not every time but once in awhile.
2006-12-10 16:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
There are few places where I'd prefer to spend time than between the thighs of a fine looking woman.
2006-12-10 16:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by jonnyexcel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't up for my bf to go down on me at all, but he wanted to. He eventually convinced me and now neither of us can get enough. It all depends on who your are "going down" on. If you aren't into then your not, theres nothing wrong with that. But if both you and your girl are, then you are in for some fun.
PS> If you learn what she likes, she'll be more than happy to return the favor!
2006-12-10 16:03:49 · answer #11 · answered by short n sweet 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋