I was talking to my girlfriend on the phone and told her that I have a new song on Myspace. She said that her computer was off and she couldnt look right now. Then she let slip that her classmate just Emailed her. She tells small lies all the time about things that don't matter. Like when she said she had never been some place then says she was there and denys saying she wasent. Why?
2006-12-10 15:54:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
careful...if they'll lie about the little things....
2006-12-10 15:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, she could be hiding something from you that she does on the internet and at certain places she goes. Or she could just be like an habitual liar. I kind of do the same thing... my b/f sometimes asks me if I'm on the computer and I'll say no even when I am, I don't know why. Probably because he knows I don't pay attention very well when I'm on the computer.
You should just ask her why she tells little lies. It could be something bigger.
2006-12-10 23:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I have a lot of moments like that. Most of the time I don't even mean to lie, it just comes out like that for some reason. So she probably doesn't mean to tell all these lies. Oh, and I have OCD. That might have something to do with it.
2006-12-11 00:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by slogan909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes women forget what they are saying. Either that or she is trying to cover up something in the past that she doesn't want to remember.
I would try to bring it up, but not just say your lieing. Bring it like ohhh well yesterday you said you had been there? Nice and easy. Ask also if she has anything to tell you about her past.
Tell her no matter what that you will still be here, even if it is something like rape or molestation. Sometimes that does happen.
2006-12-11 00:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is a pathological liar.
A pathological liar (Amer) is someone who often embellishes his or her stories in a way that he or she believes will impress people. It may be that a pathological liar is different from a normal liar in that a pathological liar believes the lie he or she is telling to be true—at least in public—and is "playing" the role.
The term "pathological liar" is not an official clinical diagnosis however psychiatrists may agree that pathological lying is often the result of a mental disorder or low self-esteem.
2006-12-11 00:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by drg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a compulsive liar. Why do you want to be with someone that lies all the time anyway? You could do better.
2006-12-10 23:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by golden2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A liar is a person who cannot help themselves. No matter how small and insignificant the lie seems they simply can't help it. I say cut her loose now because it is obvious that she cannot be trusted.
2006-12-10 23:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She lies a lot and don't even realize she's doing it. Watch out!
2006-12-10 23:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like shes trying to hide something maybe someones by her
good luck!
2006-12-10 23:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she feels like she has to lie about dumb things, a lot of people are like that
2006-12-10 23:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋