My ex has recently told me he was my ex aftertelling me he got another woman pregnant and now told me he is getting married only after knowing her 2 months. We have a 9 year old son and he's spent the last 8 years of his son's life in & out of prison. He kept me on a string the whole time he was released up until 2 weeks ago and he landed bcak in jail for something else and old girl bails him out and keeps him under careful watch. Now they decide to call me and put me on speakerphone so she can listen and jump in on me. He is not even real enough to face on his he has to have her coach him. He is an addict , an alchie, a criminal with a long record, a liar and a coward and expects visitation. I say hell no and I am going for full custody w/o visitation. I don't want him anymore cuz I know now he was blocking my true blessing and I will have it someday because I have faith. She also seems unstable and he's eluded to that but why still marry her. What do you think about it?
2006-12-10 15:52:58 · 11 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my 3 oldest kids biological father is a piece of crap too.He's her problem now,let her have him and go on with your life.
She is obviously a nut case,so just be careful letting you son around them,but let him form his own opinion about the both of them,he'll show his true colors to him eventually.
be strong and i wish you the best.hope you are lucky enough to find a great guy someday who will treat you and your baby the way you deserve to be treated,their out there i found one.
2006-12-10 16:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by leila rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really have to ask what we're thinking? I think you knew long ago, but tried to beleive that losers can be reborn. You should slap yourself for waiting around so long. Your nine year old son has now, thanks to you been taught all of his life that a person in and out of jail and on drugs is okay to wait around for. I hope in your case that you can still save him. You should have found him a real father figure a long time ago. Good luck and please...move on...it's for your own good.
2006-12-10 23:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are lucky that this loser is going to be saddled with another loser and you should take all steps and measures to try to ensure that you obtain full custody of your child -- while ensuring that he still pays child support as he legally and morally should.
Do not try to understand him or what he did, consider yourself lucky that you are not with him now. Consider yourself lucky that you still have your dreams and are working towards achieving them. Focus on being there for your child and making both of your lives better.
Good luck to you and your child, may you one day meet someone worthy of you and may you achieve the goals that you set for yourself and your child.
2006-12-10 23:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is not gonna work out for them.. it doesn't sound like he will ever change his ways..
one day he is gonna wake up and think " what did i do?"
and in the meantime u need to be a strong woman.
(that'll make them crazy)
he has the nerve to do that to u.. i say try as best as u can to try and think about u and your kid and look to the future.
do not let him back.
good luck
2006-12-11 00:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by denise d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you wasted so many years on this loser ?
You should have married a man who loves and cares for you.
You should have married him before you started having his kids.
If not then , shortly thereafter...Certainly several years ago...
2006-12-10 23:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex for a reason. Be strong for your son. You don't need the jerk to raise your child.
2006-12-10 23:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what you're doing is great keeping your child away from people like that and it's just to bad that your baby's daddy is a big screw up ..
Why he wants to marry her , you ask only he knows ..Don't let that bug you , you just keep your head high and keep your child safe and way from people like that ..
Best of luck to you =)
2006-12-10 23:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by ELEN G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I applaud you!
Sometimes life gives you blessings in disguise.... and this was one.
You don't want that kind of man in your life. Period. And now you wont have to deal with him.
2006-12-11 00:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your doing the right thing...if posible stay far away from him as posible
2006-12-10 23:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let him near your child
2006-12-11 00:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by drg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋