I'm 22 years old and I am constantly attracted to older guys. Now, when I say older, I mean like 50-60 year old guys. personally, i find that they are much better in relationships and muchmuchmuch better in bed :). anyways, i want to avoid being the common stereotype: you know, the blong "bimbo" hanging onto the rich old guy.
2006-12-10 15:44:49 · 15 answers · asked by hmmm<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about the stereotypes. If you really like older guys, then don't let what other people think stop you from being happy. They're just people who judge without knowing you.
If you like those guys, then screw everyone else and date them!
2006-12-10 15:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are going to think this no matter what you do, at least until they get to know you (especially the guys' kids). What you're asking is how to not be perceived as a stereotype; you are not a stereotype so you don't have to worry about not beign one. I don't think there is much you can do, unless someone accuses you directly of being a golddigger or something. Then you can say that it is not true.
It's easier said than done, but try not to care what people think and enjoy your boyfriends.
2006-12-10 15:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are missing something. Maybe you are looking for that father figure or may someone who is well established. Older guys try to be so controlling. What you think is fun, they might think is childish. You are grown ,but having a way older man like that can turn you into a old woman. Hi if you want an older guy atleast get someone in thier 30's or something.
2006-12-10 15:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by lhpretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as whoever you're with makes you happy and makes you feel good about the real you it doesn't matter what people say or think. Those that know you will know the real story, everyone else will have their opinions, there's nothing that will ever change that.
Just don't be the blond bimbo and that's all that matters. People will be people. You - Be yourself.
2006-12-10 15:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about 10 yrs from now when the guy is 70 and he's sick and you constantly have to take care of him, while your friends are going out and having fun. Sure you might be rich and stuff, but you need to enjoy life, and money isnt always a source of happiness.
2006-12-10 15:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Fabregas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't be a bimbo, dear.
Be intelligent and actually be independent. Don't hang onto them or fall into any stereotypical roles.
=)
2006-12-10 15:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by sir_camm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have two options.
Stop dating/sleeping with rich older men
or
Continue to date/sleep with rich older men and don't worry about what other people think.
2006-12-10 15:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by alphaphibubbles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 03:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by matlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, do your thing, seriously and don't care about what other people think, cause you know- they don't own you and they don't tell you what to do.
and if people want to stereotype you, then they are superflous and don't need to be around to drag you down.
I actually think you are pretty smart for realizing that men aren't really men until one day they wake up and they are older and wiser and they realize what women really need.
2006-12-10 15:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by ManderAnne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never be a stereo type if you don't believe yourself to be one to be unique is to be who you want to be and not worry of others insecurities.
2006-12-10 15:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by jmk_norwood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋