well...i was goin out with this guy who i REALLY liked (i said it was love but im only 14 & probly dont evn know wat love really is) neway we went out 4 like 3 months & we grew so close coz we werent jus like bf & gf, we were like besties. now he's tellin me that he wants me bak & that breakin up wit me was a big mistake! i stil really like him but evn tho he says he wants me bak, he always hooks up with otha chiks infront of me & it hurts me sooooooo bad but i cant lose my feelings 4 him coz they're jus stuk there!! wat can i do?
2006-12-10 15:41:21 · 13 answers · asked by bitz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. You guys broke up for a reason.
He sounds immature. If he would hook up with girls in front of you, he doesn't know what he wants.
it's more like that he's looking for an easy hook up.
Don't fall for it.
2006-12-10 15:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by sir_camm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 14 you are right you probably don't know what love is. But then he probably doesn't either. Im more interested in what he does when your not there. Is he still hooking up with other girls when you not around, if so he may just not want a real relationship or is just a player. If not, then he is probably using the other girls to make you jealous and does really want you.
2006-12-10 23:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by cthulhumistress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he tell you breaking up with you is a big mistake and hook up with chicks in front of you? That doesn't make sense. Pretend hookup with another boy and tell him you like him until he asks you why you do that then. Then would be the time to ask the same question. If he doesn't do anything about it then there's your answer.
2006-12-10 23:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you. He's going out with other girls to make you jealous. If you still love him, then forgive him, guys make mistakes sometimes. But tell him that under no conditions is he going to practice polygamy in front of you. Tell him straightforward. "if you love me, then you love only me." It always works.
2006-12-10 23:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Brommy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a toy move on leave him in the dust find some other guy and hook up with him in front of this guy he seems like a total jacka** who doesn't know what he wants but most young guys don't know what the hel* they want so ditch him DITCH HIM BIG TIME and move on it seems like all he will do to you is hurt you.
2006-12-10 23:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've gone out with the guy before, then just go right ahead and ask him if he really, truly, does like you. If he says yeah, then ask him why he's hooking up with others right in front of you.
2006-12-10 23:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Aryn M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants you.
You just be careful that he doesn't want his cake and wanna eat it too.
You are only young. You both confused. Just tell him the other girls gotta stop.
Best of Luck
2006-12-10 23:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you but hes not worth it! he is saying he wants you back cause he wants to be lusted after and you keep doing it. if he really wanted you back, do you honestly think he would pick up other chicks in front of you...or at all?! move on honey!
2006-12-10 23:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young, you might as well just go back out with him and see where it goes. If he doesn't stop flirting with other girls, then I would forget him and move on.
2006-12-10 23:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if u love him or like him go back otherwise just try to move on..
2006-12-10 23:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by яєηєє ℓσvєs вεiηg Hi§ ßα߀ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋