I think about her all the time, and I try to move on but she's always around. My friends are always talking to her and having fun with her, but as soon as i show up she stops having fun and gets in a bad mood.
2006-12-10 15:40:22 · 9 answers · asked by Redskins43321 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just think that you as a guy should get out there and buck up i know it is hard and it sucks trying to get over someone but the more that you get upset over things and let her see that it upsets you the more she will thrive off of your unhappiness. let her see that you don't care that she is still around, bring another girl with you next time and let her see that there is someone else eager to be with you and i promise she will either stop coming around or being around her will get easier with time. learn to play her games and she will see that she is no longer as good at it as she thought and she will either a.) give up or b.) try to fix it, and then it will be your turn to call the shots.
2006-12-10 15:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by LAshlea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the sounds of it she's not over you either.
This is a problem.. you could always see your friends when she's not around them..? but that's not always easy i guess...
I think if i was put in the same situation that i would try my best just to treat her like another friend which would either eat at her and maybe make her feel uncomfortable, which she probably already is if her mood changes so dramatically. Or maybe by treating her like on of the others (even if it is just an act) there mightn't be that tension b/w you and you can all have fun together
If you start treating her as a friend, you might start seeing her as a friend which may make moving on alittle easier...
If all else fails, you may have to just sit down with her or your friends and tell them about how the situation makes you uneasy and hopefully reach some kind of agreement
2006-12-10 15:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i'd say u should eitha talk 2 her & say that she's interfering in ur freindship life so u dont have 1 & talk 2 ur friends & tell them how ur feeling, then they may choose 2 hang with yous @ different times so it isnt so awkward wen you both arrive. if it was me i'd probly tell her 2 f**k off but thats jus me so yea lol but thats coz ima chik & i'd probly fite her lol but ur a guy so its different. also try tellin her how u feel & if she totally rejects u & doesnt feel the same way then jus keep sayin that 2 urself & u'll get thru it!! good luck bud!!
2006-12-10 15:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by bitz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well 1st off i think its more of a deal that u see her having fun and not as hurt about u 2 spiltin up and shes with ur friends..
let me tell u what happened with me its very simuilar to urs.. i was in high school i had a bf that we was toaghter 5 months. we had ever one of our friends the smae and spend every min togahter.. well i did love him but he wanted to just get into my pants and i wasnt giving up my virginity to him .. so anywasy we broke up.. he in turn had everyone against me.. turned all my friends against me my life was hell.. but i hurt for awhile but then i realized that if he could have fun why couldnt i.. so i started making new friends and having fun.. it wasnt but 3mos after we broke up that he seen it wasnt botherin me nomore that he tried to get back with me.. then i let him have it in front of his so called friends.
trust me things are rough now but they will get better.. just dont pay it no attention and hold that head up high..
2006-12-10 15:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself around her even if u still like her. its hard but sooner or later u'll be over her. y not have fun instead of worrying about her. just have fun. good luck
2006-12-10 15:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i had a situation like that but vise versa eventually u will get over her or end up doin that make up break up crap try 2 be friendly but not 2 friendly if she duznt like hope it helpz
2006-12-10 15:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by ClAiR BeAr! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually u will get over her..but just try to avoid her for the time being im sure u have other friends too....
2006-12-10 15:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by яєηєє ℓσvєs вεiηg Hi§ ßα߀ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's pissed at you, you need to ask her what's up and then let her tell you.
then if you can handle that, tell her you love her.
and if you really want to get over her, then you will after she unleashes her anger on ya.
-peace
2006-12-10 15:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by ManderAnne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on she gone off you by the looks of it there is plenty of fish in the sea
2006-12-10 15:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋