My feelings get hurt so easily. Today, I got a bad rating on my Amazon sellers account and it just felt like a knife to the heart. Be gentle now, leave an ugly answer and it may send me over the edge.
2006-12-10 15:37:33 · 9 answers · asked by amyaliceco 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Remember you're opinion of yourself is more important than another person's opinion of you, so build yourself up. Be kind to yourself and you'll see that other kind people are drawn to you.
If someone makes a comment that hurts, you're entitled to your feelings. You're also entitled to decide what you'd like to take from that comment. If it was hurtful, understand that the comment is really about how THAT PERSON feels about HIM OR HERSELF. It's not about you. If it's a constructive criticism, you can learn from it and improve yourself. That's a good thing. Improving ourselves is a good reason to be gentle with ourselves. We're learning, that's all life is.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your permission" Eleanor Roosevelt
You're awesome, you know? Keep telling yourself that.
2006-12-10 15:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was that way when i was young. I read positive thinking books and MADE myself the person i wonted to be.read some positive thinking books.and practice what they tell you to do. It ALL depends on your attitude . don't let your emotions and thoughts control you, you control them.refuse to let them control or and influence you. good luck. I wish you the best. and remember that God loves you.excepting the Spirit of God into my life changed me more then anything to be a much better person.I don't worry about anything at all.I have complete faith in God and the Spirit.You can have that if you give yourself over to God.
2006-12-10 15:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you worry too much about what others think. maybe start living life for you, and only worry about what you and maybe some close friends think. and that guy from amazon? hes probably in a bad mood, he doesnt know you. Other than that, just roll with the punches, and ignore the jerks.
2006-12-10 15:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by i must be bored, im on Y answers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if I had to guess you might have someone that judges your every move, like your mother or someone that. Try having a glass of milk and find something else to do. Jut ry to find all the positive things that were said to make the negetive remark untrue
2006-12-10 15:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by Cliff L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a hold of yourself. The real world is going to throw you things MUCH worse than a bad amazon rating.
2006-12-10 15:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need a b/f who will help you with this..
It will take a very special , patient & caring man...
2006-12-10 15:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Life is only 5% what happens to you and 95% how you react.
2006-12-10 15:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by jgpurvis1 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
toughen up. Start slowly then progress on.
2006-12-11 12:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by edyyrules 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is tough all over. deal with it and quit your whining
2006-12-10 15:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋