Don't you wish you could just turn back time? Well, this guy really likes me or really liked me :(.And I really like him back,and still do.On Thursday he came up to me out of nowhere,popped up in my face and said "You got a cell phone" and I just nodded my head yes. He then said "You gotta boyfriend?" and I looked down at the floor,and shooked my head no.Then he said,"You want one?" and I just looked down at the floor and shrugged my shoulders and did something with my hea,I don't know.But he was like,"Can I call you sometime,can I get your number?" And I just looked into his eyes the back on the floor, shyly. Then he was like,"Yes or no?" and then I just looked on the floor shyly. But then the bell rang,and he left quickly and yelled,"My time" I was just going to give him too.And then this other boy was all like,"You want me to hook yall up." I was thinking too much. What should I do?I really like the guy and he really likes me back.
2006-12-10 15:31:18 · 22 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHEN YOU MEET NEXT TIME TO HIM YOU WISH HIM SAY HI. THIS WILL OPEN YOUR WAY IF YOU ALSO LIKE HIM.
2006-12-10 15:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might like you, but it doesn't sound like he respects you. He sounds rude and domineering for getting up in your face and demanding answers when it was obvious that you respond better to people who are kind and less aggressive.
I'm afraid of how a person like that would treat you in a relationship. Would he respect your wishes? Encourage your dreams? Respect your body and the choices YOU want to make with it?
A real man (boy) treats a woman (girl) like a lady at all times. Decide what respect means to you. If he doesn't fit the bill, that's his loss. He's merely making room for someone who treats you well. You deserve to be treated well. You're special and wonderful and here on this earth for a reason.
2006-12-10 23:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by Julie N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had this problem come up. Basically all you do, is go up to him and tell him you were have a bad dad yesterday. Tell him you weren't feeling good or make up some excuse.
Then ask him if he still wants your cell phone number, if he does give it to him. If he doesn't, its his problem not yours.
I know this is hard to do, but you can do it. Sometimes put the situation in your hands, us women have to stick together on these things.
2006-12-10 23:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He kind of sounds a little controlling, and controlling can lead to abuse and abuse can lead to death. Believe me honey, I've seen it happen, and to one of my very best friends too. She was really shy, like you, and this totally hot guy asked her out, it was more like a demand to go out with him, but she didn't care. Well they hooked up and I'm sure you can guess the rest, she didn't die, thank God she realized what he was before he really hurt her. All I'm saying is is be careful. You never know what may happen. Give him your number but just be careful. Kat.
2006-12-10 23:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is nice but a bit scary. he probably likes you quite a lot and in this case you shouldn't worry, he'll be back with just another opportunity. don't hurry up to grab him, let him reveal himself a little and then accept him, no matter how much you like him.anyway, giving him your phone number is not much, so if he asks again do it, but wait before getting too much involved- love is tricky sometimes...
2006-12-10 23:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by monica06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write your phone number on a piece of paper and the next time you see him, give it to him and explain that you didn't have time the other day.
2006-12-10 23:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Junkyard DOG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, same thing happen to me in high school 15 years ago and since YOU and HE are the ones to be together your gona have to TALK with him... I froze up too and then I fixed it 'cause WE liked each other too and Been married now 14 years STILL HAPPILY
2006-12-10 23:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by miay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes fast to the point probably rehearsed it a 1,000 times to get his nerve up. give him your number for petes sake. call him .wing it back to him the way he did to you . ask do u like pizza u hungry u wanna go now to eat well is this a yes or no~
2006-12-10 23:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM!i mean if u like him then go for it.especially if he likes you too.dont hav the other guy hook you guys up though.it rarely works when someone wlse gets involved.trust me.best of luck to you and i hope it works out.
2006-12-10 23:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by via 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time.
It sounds like you really did the right thing.
You have all the right things working for you. Keep the faith.
GOD bless.
2006-12-10 23:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him give him your phone number
2006-12-10 23:33:20 · answer #11 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋