ok so this guy im dating, is shy, sometimes i feel like im trying to hard to look pretty or act cute in frnt of him when it seems he doesnt even notice. Hes warming up to me, we started holding hands and we even kissed today (his first not mine) am i wasting my time getting ready and stuff? or do you think he notcies but is to shy to say anything? :/ hmm
2006-12-10 15:30:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww...I think he's just shy and is taking his sweet time to get ready. I think he DOES notice all of the things you do, and is just too shy to say anything to you. I don't think that you are wasting your time. If you really *do* like him then you will stay and be patient, no matter what. I you don't then just leave. I think he's nervous and worried that he might do something that you won't like, and thats why he won't make a move. Try talking to him and telling him how you feel. Tell him about how you don't think that he gives you enough attention! If you don't talk then you might not get anywhere. Don't feel bad, he'll come around and warm up in time! Good Luck!
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2006-12-10 15:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by x♥Miss Murder♥x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable ASK him if he likes how you look! if he doesn't get the hint after 2 or 3 times you might have to tell him that u (like any girl!!:) need the attention! but if he's really worth it then just let it flow! he might just need the time!
2006-12-10 15:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by knowitall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't even know him well enough to know how he feels about you, what are you doing kissing him?
I know it is totally old-fashioned, but those old sayings are true. Playing hard to get gets their atten if they're looking for more than your body, but always remember, they're nearly all the time just looking for your body-this includes kissing.
2006-12-10 15:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by itsmeinin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys like girls who are confident with their body and not afraid to be a bit of a tease/flirt; this does not mean sleeping around of showing off your body. You can do this with your eyes, your smile, your hands,your body language. This seems to be very attracting to guys of all ages.
2016-05-23 04:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy ....
Its his first time around....
U could take his cherry ....(His foreskin gets cut & he bleeds when having sex for the 1st time. Its similar to a girl's hymen.) Unless he has pulled it back a lot during masturbation.
But its true that first timers are not good dating material.
The only hope is that u could mould him into one.
2006-12-10 16:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not in middle school..... but I've been. LOL
Just ask him.
Communication is important in all relationships.
This obviously stems from a bigger problem, you don't think he's giving you enough attention.
Let him know (he probably doesn't know) and give him a chance to fix it.
2006-12-10 15:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just shy. If he's opening up to you even though you say he's shy, then he must like you sincerely. If you really liked him, you wouldn't mind waiting.
2006-12-10 15:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by Aryn M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋