ok. i need to know what men truely want in a relationship. all the does and donts, and what a woman can do to keep a guy interested and want to pursue and chase. theres alot ive learned but this is a real thinker. think back to all the times youve had a girl do somethings that you wished had been done differently. things that may have made her more attractive to you. now be detailed. because you never know who you could help to be a better girlfriend. heck it could be your own girl asking this. this question is like giving you a free pass to say all the things you have ever wanted to say to a woman. i look forward to learning to be what you want.
2006-12-10 15:21:35 · 9 answers · asked by solas lethe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also want to know what makes a woman attractive to you, the chase? or when youve got alot on your mind, whats the best thing your girl can do wait it out? leave you alone? what please be detailed
2006-12-11 11:33:18 · update #1
i found my true love after 51 years she everything i dream about she understanding careing confident willing to try new thing and she conmited and god fearing we share ideal and i love her more then my self
2006-12-10 15:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men, like women, are individuals. Each wants different things. And when they want the same things, then they don't usually want them to the same degree as the next person.
Saying that, what I care about is a woman who is at least pleasant looking (she doesn't have to be people's idea of beautiful), one who has her own interests beyond me but considers me to be important, hopefully has a job or career if not attending college or university, has a good sense of humour, doesn't have to be a brain but can't be a ditz, is at least somewhat tidy and organized and mannered, and enjoys sex and having it at least thrice a week.
Edit: I like honesty in a woman, so letting me know that she is interested in me, if indeed she is, that is something I want from her. I'm not about to pursue a woman who doesn't acknowledge a real interest in my pursuing them. Why waste my time with someone who doesn't seem interested, or interested much?
2006-12-10 23:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
General attributes: smart, funny, a natural beauty (not a lot of makeup), a person that will come alongside me and keep me sharp; challenge me when I need to be challenged, affirm me when I need to be affirmed, listen to me when I need some feedback, and be positive about life in general. Someone who can "roll with the punches" that life inevitably brings.
More specifically: somebody that is willing to be open about their feelings and their insides so I don't have to read their minds but can learn enough to keep them on their toes. I hate having to guess which person I'm getting that day, so consistency is a big plus. Guys will pay attention and find ways to woo someone when they are in a position to observe rather than react to someone they want to be with.
Somebody that is willing to act more on instinct (note I did not say impulse...there's a difference) and less over-analytical. Be willing to make informed choices but don't be paralyzed by the decision-making process.
I'm not saying anything about physical intimacy...I think if you connect on all those levels, that will take care of itself. It's another part of the whole.
Hope that helps.
2006-12-10 23:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can's stand a girl that chases me it takes all the fun out of it. Don't all ways think that when i speak to another girl that i am after her. Listen to me. If i do something wrong as long as i didn't do it to you don't stay mad at me talk to me. Try to understand me ' Don't judge me. There is more' but i will stop here.
2006-12-10 23:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you base relations on sex that last for a while then the real world sets in. For me being caring,understanding,forgiving,unselfish and looking to find the good is most important.
2006-12-10 23:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by meander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do i wnat, call me an idealic fool, maybe i am. but what ii want is romance, not someone im content with, but somoen who makes me happy, someone i completely trust to the ends of the earth, and someone i can open up to, the person who will sty with me, adn not lie, cheat, or **** me over in any way, as the has been the past case.
2006-12-10 23:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking for a lot. The one thing I would suggest is that you try to understand how a guy thinks. His thinking may not make sense, but if you can come close to understanding him, it'll make your relationship more successful. Good luck.
2006-12-10 23:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if you take to long you WILL be left in the dust.
be really really nice.
super honest.
dont yell about STUPID **** EVER!
skill level makes you attractive.
2006-12-10 23:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not for 2 point...
You'd have to award me much more for all THAT information.
2006-12-10 23:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋