my boyfriend invited me to his jobs christmas party and im not sure if i want to go. his friends also work with him, and me and his friends are having problems with each other. I really want to go to support him, but i'm not sure if ill feel comfortable with his friends there and i dont want to cause more drama then there already is.Should I put our differences aside and go for my boyfriend? Or am I just asking for trouble?
2006-12-10 15:20:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you need to go, because these are the times you show your boyfriend how much he means to you that even though you didn't want to put up with his friend you still went to support him
also about the friend try to avoid him, any conversations any eye contact OR maybe you could solve the problems if there was misunderstandings!
but your boyfriend definitely needs you,
and trust me out of all the people there you are the only person he'll want with him and next to him :)
2006-12-10 15:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by M T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him why you don't want to go. Tell him if you do you will only be miserable because they will be causing problems. You want him to have a good time and not end up mad because you and the friends got into it.
If he says no problem, tell him he has to stick up for you when they start and blame them for any trouble that happens. Because you are not going to speak to them and give them a reason to start with you.
2006-12-10 23:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since he asked you to go he must want you to go.. and just go and have fun dont worry about his friends you dont have to sleep with them.. Just Ignore any stupied remarks they make make towards you and dont bring up any diffrences you are having he is your man not theres and they are probally just jealous that he has such a great catch and they dont..
have fun and happy holidays.
2006-12-10 23:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go and have some fun! Never mind his friends your not there to hang out with them. You don't even have to talk to them if you don't want too. Your boyfriend wants you there with him don't let them ruin your night. Enjoy yourself!
2006-12-10 23:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by cutegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way! dont go. they will make sure you have a horrible time and everyone will have a great time except you who will be sitting in the corner sulking, wanting to go home. seeing you uncomfortable and wanting to leave will be much worse than if you just dont go at all and you let him have a good time with his mates
2006-12-10 23:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by *juicyjellybean* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go, enjoy the party and ignore the problems, make yourself at ease with your loving boyfriend.
2006-12-10 23:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by breakfree_a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go and show his friends that your not scared of him. Just put your chinup. Oh, and don't care what his friends think, you are they're to support your boyfriend and that's it:)
2006-12-10 23:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to go. so you dont let your boyfriend down. but maybe you should tell him the situation and ask his advice
2006-12-10 23:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by Valerena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and enjoy urself. if his friends say something u don't like, ignore them. i'm sure their job party trained. good luck
2006-12-10 23:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by tasha7682 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, its christmas. but a smile and a great dress on and go. just kill his friends with kindness and enjoy yourself.
2006-12-10 23:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋