ok so like my bfs mom hates blondes for sum reason and she cant get over it... she even tried to get me and my bf to break up... i try to be nice to her but she say very rude things about me and gets into our bussiness.... me and ethan have been 2gether for 4 months and i dont want her to screw it up cause im so freaking happy like u dont even know
HELP ME PLZ
2006-12-10 15:14:21 · 5 answers · asked by aLeXaNdRiA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm like i wish i could like help you.
but seriously, you should have firm talk with her, and ask her politely to stop acting rude to you. If she continues, then just ignore her..and that's all you can do. You can't change the way she is, you can only change how you REACT to her.
2006-12-10 15:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok....I gave the same advice maybe 10 minutes ago. It is not a good idea for your bf to pass on the rude stuff his mom says, but if she's bold enough to say it to you then thats another story. But, on both ends, if he is passing this stuff on to you then he probably has no balls, or he belives it himself. Secondly, if his mom is saying this stuff directly to you, then you give it to her, and if your bf really cares he'll be right by your side giving it to her too.
2006-12-10 15:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His mom has no right to hate you just b/c of your hair color, that's ridiculous.
If you really really like him, I would just stay away from his mom as much as possible. I've never had a situation like this, so I'm not sure what else to tell you.
2006-12-10 15:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is his mother and as long as he lives under HER roof she has a right to get into HIS business. If you don't like it find another boyfriend.
2006-12-10 15:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just forget about her . she will move on. some moms r just protective and it usually isnt just you that she hates
2006-12-10 15:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by ozzygirlisme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋