How do I get her back after all of this?

Question

My girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago and ever since we've been talking and all. I tried everything to get her to come back, ignoring her, hanging out and showing her that I was a good guy. But I recently found out that she is "talking" to another guy, who by the way is a complete jerk. And like ever since she broke up with me shes been changing into a different person, like not in a good way. She parties way to much and spends the night at that guys house, I know because she tells me. And I've never felt a pain like this before. It really hurts. We had gone out for a long time and I truly love her, I believe she is the one. But recently its gotten so bad I have had thoughts of suicide because it just doesn't seem worth it without her in my future. Her mom said shes head over heels for me but she just needs space. But she has lied to her mom about where she goes, what she does and has even told her she went to my house when she went to the other guys.what do I do?I love her

She called me one night, I had been crying all night thinking about it and I told her how I felt and she said she would commit suicide if I did. I couldn't do that to her but idk. The other night she told me that she didn't want to talk to me for awhile. Literally just said, I don't want to talk to you for a couple days. After hearing that it's come to the point where I don't care to even think about calling her or talking to her but I need to do something. I need help to know what I have to do to get her back. I know she still feels for me, sometimes. But I'm afraid shes gonna get hurt by this guy who just likes her because shes hot. Im giving her time and not talking to her but i'm afraid that she will grow apart from me and it will end. Is it even worth it to keep trying or am I just messing things up further? Help, please.

I have told her how I feel. She knows I love her more then anything in the world. I promised i'd buy her a pony before I died because whenever I asked what she wanted for xmas or a b-day she'd say a pony. She knows I feel how I do and still it persists. She knows all this.

I waited outside her house one night for 2 hours with the best rose I could find. When she came home she loved it but then when I got home she txt'ed me saying that I shouldn't do this because it just hurts me and she doesn't want to destroy who I am because i'm such a great guy. Which just confuses me.

Answer 1

It sounds like she is trying to make you jealous. Whatever you do, don't kill yourself, and don't let her know that you are thinking those thoughts, it might freak her out. Just write her a letter or get her alone to talk, do anything to let her know that you love her and that you want her back. She may need the space too, she may feel like she needs to experiment a little since you two have been together for so long. When this new guy messes up, be there! Let your shoulder be the one she cries on. If the guy is a jerk, he will screw up eventually. Just let this run it's course. She'll come back.

Answer 2

ok, girls love assholes. showing her that you're a good guy isn't going to help especially when she's seeing a jerk on the side.

dude, take it easy. she is not worth killing yourself over. i know you love her a lot, but you've got to move on. might take months or years, but you'll recover from the pain in time.

Answer 3

tell her how you feel and what's on your mind, many girls wish that guys had the balls to just come out n say how they feel, we girls like sentimental guys... Romance her with the way you feel about her don't be afraid to open up.. at least this way you can never say "i wish i would have just told her how i feel."

Answer 4

just tell her how u feel and how much u missed her. be honest and if she doesnt take u back then u should move on. good luck