ive been talkin to this guy for a while i kno just about everything about him and he says he cares about me and he says all that guy crap . but its almost been a month and he hasnt called me like he will text me (everyday almost) and say srry cuz hes been really busyand really tired lately i have been busy too but i try to call when i get a chance and sometimes he wont answer but we used to talk every nite and im getting paranoid and im worried he mite be talkin to some otha girl or something. I feel real immature but i have feelings for him and I just dont wanna get hurt. I plan on confronting him and seeing wats up but Im not tryin to make a big deal outta it it is so outta character for me I just wanna know if he is tryin to make me jealous and playin games or if hes like over me or if I did something to turn him off or if hes just busy. I know you guys are goin to say ask him and i am I just wanna know if any of u have experience with this or have done this to anyone before
2006-12-10 15:05:49 · 7 answers · asked by gettinitoffmychestgurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow thank you guys sooooo much I think in the back of my mind I knew this I just needed somebody to slap it in my face. Ive already got a another replacement in mind. It justs hurts a lil cuz i thought he was diff....omg i sound soooo like a sex and the city character anyway keep on with the replies ima need a lil more ammo to run on to forget this guy
2006-12-10 15:41:28 · update #1
If he hasn't called you in a month he's not interested in you. Nobody is that busy that can't take 10 minutes or so every night to call someone they supposedly care about. Lose this guy he doesn't care.
2006-12-10 15:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea sounds bad. Perhaps he isn't mature for a relationship. been there done this it happened to me. I moved for a guy after being with him 4.5 yrs back and forth. He would text every few days he would text more than ever call. I think it is a social disorder or personality disorder where they cant relate.If it was another girl how would you know? you wouldn't. I mean they don't speak so then you assume. You get into trouble assuming then so then your dammed if you ask dammed if you don't. the mature thing is to ask hey, I need answers we need to talk. If he can't talk then F- him. He is not worth the time. He put you in the spot to doubt !!what the h-ll? I mean if he cared or felt same he couldn't wait to see you. In normal situations. Some guys just aren't ready. Do what you do enjoy life go out and if he calls or offers to come over good if not your better off without him. Some guys are like water. Hot one day cold the next they don't know what they want. I chalk it up in any case immaturity to not give you the decency to be a real friend and do something about it. Sometimes a guy is just lonely and wants a sounding board a kind of therapy but sucked you in.
2006-12-10 23:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, im sorry to say this, but move on. he's bored of u and the only reason y he is texting u back is cuz he doesnt want to hurt u more than what he already has. for reals though, i used to do that cuz i didnt want to talk to the person anymore but ii felt bad. even though u like him alot, move on and find someone better cuz they aint and shouldnt be worth ur time. a guy who seriously likes u would want to be with u everyday!!!
2006-12-10 23:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you need to move on. Get out, take charge, find yourself another guy and enjoy your life. You don't need to spend it waiting for someone.
2006-12-10 23:16:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's texting but not calling have you considered he might be married or have a girlfriend already..and sorry to say if it has been a month he isnt your guy...time for you to move on
2006-12-10 23:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by charmel5496 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should stop contacting him....if he really wants you then he will come to you! if you stop contacting him and then you never hear from him again then honestly he just wasnt that into you........but let him be the man in this situation and if he wants you he will call!
2006-12-10 23:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by LaUrA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that shows that he's just not that into you!
2006-12-10 23:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by monofinity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋