2006-12-10 14:56:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Hello umar,
I recommend very romantic and slow, make the evening last.
S
2006-12-10 14:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sharlene R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Decent? We'll you are married, so you have the right to do what ever you want to do in bed. R u religious? We'll if ur christian, the bible says the marriage bed is holy and undefiled. That means that it is okay to be freaky. LOL. You are married. You may want to light candles everywhere, especially around the bed. Then throw rose petals from the door to the bathroom and around the bed. Run her a nice bubble bath with candles lit in the bathroom too. Have chocolate and strawberries, with whipped cream. Don't just jump on her, but turn her on with foreplay. Good Luck and have funnn. You deserve.
2006-12-10 22:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by Tonya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some wonderful answers here! I would just add that I find it extremely comforting to be held/snuggle after. It is very normal for guys to want to be alone after sex, however, girls often feel very "exposed" after. It might sound silly, but holding her after will provide her huge comfort and security for next time. She may not need it... pay attention to her body language. But be ready to be there after. If you need a few minutes to yourself, that's fine. Just let her know that you will be right back and perhaps offer to grab her something to drink/eat/whatever. Flowers the next day are wonderful. A small gift to give her afterword that night is also very intimate; perhaps a book with a personal note from you, or perhaps a stuff animal ready for her to hold while you take a "breather".
2006-12-14 22:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things are VERY IMPORTANT for "first sexual relations" with someone.
1. GENTLE! even if she is not a virgin, if she's been with you for some time and you haven't been sleeping together, she is going to be tight and it will probably hurt.
2. FOCUS ON HER! a lot of men who haven't had sex in some time are very quick to finish. If you can control yourself try to make sure she gets off too. If you can't help yourself, try to stay hard and get her after you finish. If she doesn't get satisfied on her WEDDING NIGHT you are screwed for the rest of your marraige.
2006-12-11 00:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by Julia Star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Umar,
First I would like to congratulate you for getting married.
I am assuming you and your bride to be are both virgins, so it is very important to make her feel special.
Try nice romantic gestures like candle light, a nice bottle of wine, sweet music, chocolates and lots of rose petals.
If you are going to be spending the evening in a motel, try and get a room with a nice view and a nice hot tub.
Give her a massage in the tub, she will feel very relaxed.
Make sure you treat her with alot of respect, and dont try and rush into having sex straight away. Foreplay is essential.
Lots of kisses and cuddles, touching gently.
Because she is a virgin, I strongly suggest you bring some personal lubricant to the bedroom with you. (KY jelly)
This will make it alot more comfortable for her when you first enter her vagina.
Please be gentle with her, and if she begins to get nervous or says its hurting her, give her some time to relax before trying again.
Making love for the first time is a very sacred thing, its the most beautiful expression of love, and its something that you will both learn to enjoy as a married couple. Intimacy is very important in a marriage.
Just as I said, be gentle with her, missionary (her laying down, you on top) is a great first position to try. You'll get used to the way your hips are meant to move eventually. Just practise.
If she is finding this posisition too uncomfortable, she could try getting on top of you, so that way she is in control of how much length of your penis will enter her vagina.
Good luck with it, i hope my advice helps.
2006-12-11 01:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by He moonwalked on my <3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no need to have a decent way manz.. just let it by.. let ur feel and passion run the whole show! "1st sexual relation".. hmm im sure its gona be a very exciting night becoz u guys going to be crazy over it..happy married!
2006-12-10 22:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Its me! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out, have a good time, enjoy yourselves. Make the "Sex" thing, the last thing on your mind. When it happens, it happens. Start by kissing and touching. Talk to one another and take your time. If you make it number one on your list of priorities, if you don't kiss, talk and take your time, it'll all be over before you know it's even REALLY begun. Make it the desert, not the main course. Savor and enjoy.
2006-12-10 23:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by Doc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to be gentle, sweet and passionate with your wife. by now even if your'e both virgins u should no what sh elikes and dislikes, so do what ever both of you are comfortable with. u can probably start by you performing oral sex on her. kiss her body up an down caress her body and make her feel wanted and special. use whip cream , grapes , strawberries and eat them off her body.
2006-12-10 23:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by sweetbahama mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your wedding so nothing is wrong unless it makes your wife uncomfortable. Do it often. Sex is better when it has emotion behind it. Just have fun.
2006-12-10 22:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by DALE M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow and easy. Make it romantic. Remember a woman is stimulated more by touch whereas a man is more visual.
2006-12-10 23:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by blr30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋