There is this girl i have strong feelings for, however she told me she wanted to be friends. Thing is she seems different than other girls, and we have gotten closer over time, even after she told me that. It seems so playful between us and i can't help but wonder why it won't work. the thing that bothers me the most is that most of the guys she winds up talking to leave her standing there, because they just wanted sex or w/e and couldn't get it from her, and i actually want a relationship. and even helping her out with advice, she usually agrees with my opinion on most things, it just seems like it will work, but i don't know what to do about it. i mean the irony is that i wind up having this girl in all of my classes senior year, of all 3600 people in my school, her, in all six classes, belssing or curse i don't know.
2006-12-10 14:53:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um could be fate her being in all your classes.. out of all those people. your not gonna be happy unless you ask her out and date her because all your college yrs when u see her you will wonder the what if game. what if i asked her out sooner. why dint I ? why did she just want to be Friends? perhaps she don't find you attractive. we girls say that when ''JUST FRIENDS" comes your way. not interested. perhaps you don't know what all she has been thru and is scared. Perhaps your just a soulmate friend. Not all soulmates date. Some are life long friends. Don't mess it up. Ask her out get to do regular things with her as you would with the guys. Games eating pizza out platonic don't make moves on her let her get to know you to learn to feel the way you do. If it doesn't you 2 will be at least closer. For life. Better to have a good gf as a friend then a ex gf with bittersweet memories.
2006-12-10 15:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think this girl really likes you but doesnt think you like her except for being friends. It really seems like a wonderful open relationship you had w/her so why not let your feelings out. Did you play mind games w/her which makes her pull away? Be honest and loyal and go talk to her. You might be quit surprised as how she feels about you. Things work out for the best whether we realize it now or later.
2006-12-10 15:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to respect her feelings. But make sure you are there for her whenever she needs someone to talk to her or just be there for her. And one of these days she should figure out that you have been there for her through the good times and the bad times. So maybe she will then she will change her mind.
2006-12-10 15:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Parrish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and the question is...?
2006-12-10 14:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋