2006-12-10 14:48:13 · 9 answers · asked by LaUrA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friends with benefits lack an important issue that keep relationships going: trust. There is no way to know that if your a friend with benefits, there's another one too despite what he may tell you. But if he feel the same way you do, which you need to find out, then it may be worth talking to him about. Again, trust issues in a relationship is very important.
2006-12-10 14:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole point of friends with benefits is to keep emotion out of it. You can express how you feel to your "friend" but if they don't feel the same, then whole situation is likely to be over...I sure wouldn't keep having sex with a guy that I knew really dug me, but all I wanted him for was sex. It's not the right way to treat people.
Sometimes though, fwb situations to evolve...you can either see what happens over time...or force things to be looked at now...
2006-12-10 14:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? Your both using each other for sex, so why ruin a good thing? If the sex is good, then don't look a gift horse in the mouth. If you love your friend, then tell them, and it will either ruin everything, or get better, but either way, you'll find out real quick. If you don't love your friend, then don't ruin it with relationship crap.
2006-12-10 14:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This almost never works, sorry. Most people start a friends with benefits relationship because that's all they want. When one person starts to want more it usually gets messy. Sorry.
2006-12-10 14:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by libra1079 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth about how you truly feeling and that you just don't want to be a friend with benefits.
2006-12-10 14:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by massy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. There are two types of women. The ones you just sleep with and the ones you get serious about. If a woman is just a "sex friend" she will never be more than that to me.
2006-12-10 14:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tie him up to your bed posts and pour hot wax all over his body untill he promises to be more then just friends with you.
If he refuses, drown him in a tub of whiskey.
That is all, goodbye.
2006-12-10 15:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by therapist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol thats exactly why you dont get involed with friends who have benefits cause you get attached eventually. just ask em out on a lil lunch date and bring it up casually
2006-12-10 14:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by ɷ▫▪вяøκeи;;♥ иøт đefeαтeđ▪▫ɷ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok just ask her. and that is disgusting.....friends with benifits. that phrase confuses me cuz wat REAL benifits do u get?
2006-12-10 14:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by ozzygirlisme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋