ok so there is this guy i started dating a week ago and i REALLY like him but there was like 4 other girls that liked him and now they are all amd at him, and he's upset about THEM and seems like he doesnt have time 4 me. but he told me hes happy, does he like one of them or is he going to leave me hanging? WHAT DO I DO?????
2006-12-10 14:43:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i`ll tell u one thing...if someone cant make up their mind they are not into u.. they just wanna keep u around if they dont find anyone else...its better to have someone at ur side then no one...thats what most guys thing cauz they will have p*ssy for free and u will only be used and hurt
2006-12-10 14:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sorta depends on how long he's known them and what his relationship with them is.
You're his girlfriend, but that doesn't mean he can't have female friends. If that bothers you, then you don't trust him and your relationship is doomed anyway.
However, their interest doesn't sound plutonic, though his might be.
I'd wait and see. It's only been a week, it's not like your married or don't have plenty of time. But let him know that it bothers you that he spends so much more time trying to appease all these other people when you've made a commitment to eachother. Maybe he's got a good reason, maybe not. But you're not going to learn anything by stewing.
If he doesn't start making time for you, he's probably got something similar going on with at least some of the others and I'd ditch him.
2006-12-10 22:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by socialdeevolution 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to relax and just stop. You've been together for a week. To short a time to be making long term commitments and to short of a time to be so unhappy in a relationship. If he doesn't have time for you move on. why is he upset about them what is going on there.
2006-12-10 22:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes there isn't much we can do, if he has no time for u, than u have to accept reality, and take it for what it is. he is having too much fun with all those other girls. maybe he isn't the one for u, it isn't much fun having to fight girls off all of the time, theres other fish in the sea, he isn't the only one out there. u will meet many guy's, in your search for mr. right, takes time, let this one go, and save yourself the hurt and rejection u will feel if u put too much confidence in him.
2006-12-10 22:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if you're only a week into the relatioship and problems all ready, it's time to move on.
2006-12-10 22:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so he's upset because these girls like him? You are making no sense to me.
2006-12-10 22:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by nikki_77327 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like him u can tell those other girld to buzz off!
but talkin to him about problems makes a guy wretless and makes him uncomfortable......let me just put it this way if u talk about problems too much he will break up with you.
2006-12-10 22:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by ozzygirlisme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... look at what you just wrote.. its a mess.. the whole situation reeks of NOT GOOD at the moment.
2006-12-10 22:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on , he is a player
2006-12-10 22:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋