I told this guy that i have a boyfriend, but he still whats to hang out?
he asked for my number and asked if its ok if we go someday for dinner together as friends......do u think he wants to be just friends??
2006-12-10 14:43:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whatever you do, turn him down because if he is still trying to get you to go out with despite the fact that you already told him that you have a boyfriend, then it seems like he wants one thing from you. If he can't respect you by backing off and let you be with your boyfriend, then I say let him go because he isn't getting the picture.
2006-12-10 14:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough because usually if a girl has a boyfriend another guy will back off.. but in your case it looks as though this other guy is into you, probably because he knows he cant have you. It might start off as a dinner just as friends, but what will it lead to? another dinner "just as friends" or maybe a movie "just as friends".. either way he wants to see you and only you.. i suggest (in respect for your boyfriend) that you make it a group thing if possible, so that it will remain only a friendship.. hope that helps!
2006-12-10 22:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really liked you he'd respect your girlfriend status and have considered you only a friend for now. Be careful as to exchanging numbers and hangin out as this could lead to your relationship problem. So be friends but also be careful because you already have someone in your life.
2006-12-10 22:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then go along with it and just be friends but if he tries to make a move on u by like trying to kiss u or something then stop talking to him cause u told him that u have a bf and he didnt respect it
2006-12-10 22:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not. some guys have a very high confidence level and think that they can go out with u and steal u from ur boyfriend. like try and persuade u and make u want to be with them. its tricky but just be careful ... or maybe he really does just want to be firends
2006-12-10 22:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you and the b/f break up, he's positioning himself...
he might really like you and feel that you have a connection and he prolly hopes that fate will bring you two together...
2006-12-10 22:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by Pregnant with baby# 2!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH, he's jockeying for position. He wants to let you know that if b/f fails on you... He wants to be next on the list?
2006-12-10 22:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Positive K its an old school song that will explaine everything. : )
2006-12-10 23:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jnsp52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probley not.....did you meet him online or in person????
if online he probley doesnt want to be just friends but if its in person maybe
2006-12-10 22:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by live life to the fullest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋