You don't feel as strong for them as they feel for you...
2006-12-10 14:36:07 · 13 answers · asked by maisie24 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I stayed with my ex-bf because I didn't want to hurt him. Sometimes though you just have to take that leap and hope that things will turn out for the best. A person has to realize that there are two parties involved and both deserve their own chance at happiness. Staying with someone for the wrong reasons doesn't allow for that chance.
2006-12-10 14:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maisie, Your most important relationship is with yourself. Learn to love yourself, celebrate what a wonderful person you are. If you truly love yourself you can accept anyone into your life. But you will learn how to honor yourself by the friends you keep close. Consider this; look at a person's close friends and you can tell a lot about that person. If others look at your friend, what does that say about you? Do you feel honored in the presence of your friend? If you don't have the same feelings for your Friend that he has for you, tell him. He will get over being hurt...but you won't get over living a life with someone you don't truly care for. Honor yourself first.
2006-12-10 22:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u asked the wrong question.. i think the question is why are u still with him!!!when u find the aswer to that then u will have the rest of the answers..
I BEG U !!! DONT USE THE GUY THAT U ARE WITH!! most people do that when they dont feel as stron as the other one does.. i had it happen to me before i loved someone he lied and said he did me too and i found out that all he was doing was using me cuz he couldnt be a man and just tlel me that he didint// it hurts alot worse like that then tellign the truth!
2006-12-10 22:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's because we think we can change them and other times it's because we don't want to be alone. Never the less that very person can make you happy at times and really hurt you. Out weighing the differences is important when being ready to go on with that type of relationship.
2006-12-10 22:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jnsp52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because I am married to him and I have a family with him. Feelings change all the time.
My marriage vows said thru thick and thin, good and bad.
He is a good man and a great Dad.
2006-12-10 22:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by It's been a while........... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stay with her because I feel like I can't get anyone better or I'm not worth anybody better.
2006-12-10 22:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex boyfriend tried so hard to get me to be his woman,i didnt like him at all thort he was sweet but he tried to hard and wasnt that attractive. i thort it was never going to work but i felt sorry for him so thought id give him a go. i thought he would always have stronger feelings for me. about 6 months later i realised i was in madly in love with him and couldnt be without him, blah blah blah. we were together for 4 yrs and i will always have a soft spot for him because he was so good to me
2006-12-10 22:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by *juicyjellybean* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its been 27 years, kids, grandchildren, money.
2006-12-10 22:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? Boredom. Or it wasn't horrible enough to leave, yet.
2006-12-10 22:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by Laura C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, guilt is the main reason.
2006-12-10 22:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋