please help! boy problems! :[?

Question

i like this kid, jason. hes best friends with my cousin trent.
ive been "talking" to jason since early sept. and we even went to homecoming together, im a freshman, he`s a junior. he said he really liked me a lot, and told my frnds i was 'mad beautiful' and asked me a few times on myspace if i would evr go out w/him. like a week after homecoming, he goes out with another girl&iwas so hurt. i thought we were still talking but he didnt think so, bcus@hmcming i dnt act like i liked him b.c i was nervous.but neway he broke up w. her and started tlkin to me again, and i can read private cmnts on myspace, so i read his and saw he was talking to some girl, kiley. and they hung out a lot, but it seemed like she was annoying him.&this wknd my cus. britney said jason was talking about me@her&trents house. and i heard last night he kissed some girl. he denied talking about me.but idk wut 2 blve, b.c brit liked him b4. he sed he stil likes me a lot. but idk. i rly like him. what should i do??????

Answer 1

first of all, you are a freshman, and freshman are not that intelligent while making relationship decisions... Well, you have to fall alot, mess up alot, and be stupid in order to learn some valuable lesson in life.... They call me a relationship Guru, bc I somehow understand what is the best solution or a likely valuable outcome to a relationship... enough said, I adivise you to stop liking him...
1.) his intensions were not pure ( from what you told me)
2.) he is probably playing his cards correctly, meaning that he is going out with other girls, who cares if this one doesn't see me important, i can get others... by doing so, it would boost his ego
3.) you are better off without worrying these stupid situations, i bet you will feel stressfree if u give up thinking about him
4.) Men likes hard to get girls!! this is a FACT.. I liked this girl (cuz i think she was beautiful) but after I TRUELY got her, i lost interest... which signifies the true essense of a male, we are jerks!!!
5.) If you tolerate these bs stunt that he is doing, meaning that u are desperate, and wanting him even though he mess up so much (kiss other girls, lie, hang out, and be with others, etc.) you should Drop this, move on, he'll FLY at u like an illegal immigrants seeking for a green Card
6.) if u r beautiful, be happy... (cuz some people aren't)... play ur cards right, don't give in... be independent, successful, carefree... and most importantly... Don't give any GUY ur heart or attention... they'll crave for it like an ADDICT needing heroine..

In the end, be selfish... bc in life... or in relationship... NOTHING is equal... :-)

Answer 2

Ah it was so hard to read because of the way u wrote lol im not a really big fan of using numbers and @ signs.
k anyways, i think this guy is just a player, probably likes every girl out there, goes out with a girl dumps her kisses aother girl but likes u and another girl???? CONFUSING!!
i say get over this guy a.k.a. a player who will probably use u and find a guy who actually likes u when he says he does

Answer 3

Go with what u feel... It he denies stuff the you know he def, did then he isnt the guy you want trust me but if he is genuine and a good guy and you know that he would be faithful in a realtionship go for it, if not he could do the same thing to you that he did to the girl he dumped

Answer 4

let me ask you this.... why do you want a guy like this? i mean sure you like hi, but do you really want the chance of him doing things behind your back with out even telling you and you finding out later. you guys might hit it at first but it seems once you guys are together it wont last. sorry chika i noe thats not what you want to hear but face the facts the guy only likes you for your looks and some personality, but mostly girls with looks and (maybe putting out girls). sorry but you should see other better guys out there. plz dont take watever i said the wrong way. just trying to help.

Answer 5

because of the fact the adult males you asked defined to you, this occurs to each boy and is prevalent. you are going to be nervous if that may not occurring. Set your alarm to upward push up in the previous and bathe. No massive deal. settle on your biology somewhat of attempting to suppress it to risky stages. And until you get married or turn to masturbation, that is going to proceed previous 21 and 22. adult males of their 30s, 40s and 50s awaken with moist desires, often times even while they are married and having intercourse many times. don't be fooled into not information and not accepting the biology Allah gave you. you could cope with it and there is not any could experience ashamed or embarassed.

Answer 6

honey your a convenience girl your only right for him when he wants it to be move on make him jealous dont play his game dont keep getting hurt cause he is the type of guy that if you did hook up with him you would properly end up worse off so move on i am sure you are beautiful and there are plenty more out there trust me

Answer 7

hmm..u guys are not married..no seriuos connection..no string attached...if u want things to work out with him...have some string attach 1st..what u expect him to do..u not giving a serious sign...and u expect him to be waiting for u..of course he will go out and find his girl...

but if there is a serious connection...be careful..may be he is just playing around...u know guys...one there..one here..so that he wont be bored...

just clear out things with him...
if u really like him..then tell him..and be serious..if not..dont bother...

he not the only guy..and there might be a bettrer guy..

good luck..dont worry..
tell him u really like him and see what happens..see if he still hangout with other gals..( but hanging out is not wrong rite..they might be just frens)..so think wisely..dont come to a conclusion just like that..

Answer 8

i think he's playin'. you're a freshman right and though i'd hate to put sex in the issue he might be making you into a target... some guys like to be 'cool' to their pals and play around with freshies and see who gets into her undies first... i know... maybe it ain't that way with him but it might be. think this over... and stop askin' people if he talks about you...coz it's normal for guys to talk about girls who like them and i'm in doubt if he hasn't noticed hat you like him coz seems that you're giving signals... just think this over... you need time...and after that maybe you guys can talk because if he is serious bout you he'd be dating YOU not some other girl.

Answer 9

sounds like this guy is a total "pimp"
and by pimp, i mean a guy who thinks he can have whatever and whoever he wants....
beware and very careful...
he sounds like a few guys i know, and their nothing but heart breakers, and damn proud of it...
but you never know since he's best friends with your cousin, he may not hurt you...
just protect your heart...

Answer 10

tell him that u like him a-sap cuz b4 u no it he will be taken. but whatever u do dont tell him that u looked on his private comments and u really shouldnt be doin that anyways. its his privacy!