have you ever had feelings for someone and you couldn't tell them...a secert crush in other words? If so how did you handle it?
2006-12-10 14:30:19 · 13 answers · asked by angel_leea96 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i did but i cant tell them
2006-12-10 14:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by J.B.1972 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very hard question to answer with one simple sentence. Psychiatriasts have always tried to answer this, but could never come up with one good answer. In my opinion, people should not have to worry about talking to the opposite sex. Go for it what is the worst thing that could happen they say no. Then you move on they probably weren't worth your time. Why waste you life away wondering what if. The first one is always the hardest. Once you get that one down your good forever. Good Luck!
2006-12-10 22:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by shiznizzal24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many, many, many girls... I just put up with it. I know that the girls are interested in me too, but I'm too big a pussy to make a move. For a long time, I just stopped caring about relationships. Recently, though, I've been getting those "crushes" again. As their name implies, they're crushing me... I just have to hold my life together for a few more months, then I'm moving far away from this life. Start fresh in one of the southern states...
2006-12-10 22:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by Steve-o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your first question, yes!!! I still do, and I can't tell my brother because it's his friend, and I can't tell his friend because he prolly thinks that I'm just a nerd like, shadowing his life. (maybe not, but it sure feels like it!)
I write in my diary a lot, and it helps let my secret feelings for him out. Writing in something but not to someone makes you feel special in a sense (me anyway) because then you're not endangering your feelings by telling a real PERSON, but then you can still vent.
1.) start a diary
2.) sing love songs in the shower :)
3.) talk to your pets! After all, who else is the best listener but the one who can't hurt your feelings??
4.) confide your secret in a best friend. They're the other best listeners...
5.) try your hand at poetry - it really helps you express yourself.
Really all you need to do is find a way to express your feelings, but not TO someone exactly if you're not ready for it.
2006-12-10 22:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Just Another Broken Heart♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did, I wrote her little poems and sent her notes. Try and tell the person, maybe write a letter to them.
2006-12-10 22:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a friend about it. For me it helps if someone else knows. You can talk with them and eventually build up the courage to talk to the person you like.
2006-12-10 22:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Aeds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn good question i think i might be in love with someone,, but im already in love with oneperson ,, how can someone be in love with two people at the same time,, maybe it is lust.. but as for your answer,,, i let her feel up on me when she wants ,, but i try not to return the favor
2006-12-10 22:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do now... I'm still trying to work up the guts to go tell him.
2006-12-10 22:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i did i told her and she said that wed have to get to know eachother more before we could think about that
2006-12-10 22:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to move on if youcan't tell them
2006-12-10 22:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋