and he was cheating on u. and u still like him. what would u do?
2006-12-10 14:30:12 · 20 answers · asked by Radhika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he was cheating on u and stilll have feelings for him. by the way it's just a question and i am single and not dating anyone that's 21. i just wanted to know.
2006-12-10 14:37:02 · update #1
I am sorry a 21 man does not belong with a 14 year old girl. There is only one reason why a guy of that age would like a 14 year old and I am sorry those feelings arent the kind that last. There is nothing a 14 year old can do. A 21 year old is only going to like a 14 year old because she is hot. Even if she could get him to be interested in her for sex. He would lose interests in her. The age difference is too great.
2006-12-10 14:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not involved with a quality guy. Run away. Someone in this picture could go to jail and it wouldn't be you. This may be hard to hear, but any guy who say he has feelings for a 14 y/o has serious problems. There are no 14 y/o who are that mature. And now he's cheating on you? Honey, this is a bad scene. Take some time to grow up before you look for another boyfriend. Then, look for one who has a better code of relational ethics.
2006-12-10 14:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by My Sisters Kitchen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I wouldn't date someone that much older than me. You will have nothing in common with each other. I imagine that all he is after is s e x. If that is the case then you should not be giving it up to someone that will go to jail for being with you. If you were my daughter, he would be in jail and you would be grounded for life. I would take away any dating privileges you had. You shouldn't have any to begin with though, you are too young.
Second, if someone EVER cheats on you DUMP HIM!! He is not worth the worry and the pain. If he cheats once, he will do it again and again and again. Don't live your life like this. It is up to you what kind of guy you have in your life and how they treat you.
2006-12-10 15:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if my 14 was dating a 21 year old he would be in jail so fast his head would spin, and my daughter would be ground until she was 18. this is illegal you are paying with fair and you could get a STD that might cause you to never have children Get checked out right a way.
2006-12-10 14:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by UTGirl34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to let that man go your just a kid and he will always cheat and he only wants
one thing he will lie and tell you he loves you and everything else he thinks you want to here and if you give in he will only break your heart tell him to get lost and if want a boyfriend fine one around your age you've got all kinds of time for that please tell that man to get lost before he hurts you or gets you into trouble.
2006-12-10 14:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by Starla S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. no normal 21 year old would want to be with a 14 year old. he's a bad guy and you need to stay away from him. years from now you will look back and see that you had a lucky escape.
2006-12-10 14:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by sally p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i was 14 and he 21 my parent's would have ringed my little neck..and if he is cheating on you, why would you want to be with someone who thinks so little of you? he's a player and you are young and naive
and if you slept with him, that's statutory rape
2006-12-10 14:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok for one thing that is illegal!!! that really shouldnt be. i can almost garuntee u that almost all guys that r 21 and goin out with a 14 year old is only lookin to get one thing
2006-12-10 14:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by ozzygirlisme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a pervert and if he's caught he will go to jail.
He's cheating on you because you're a little girl and he's with someone who doesn't have homework.
2006-12-10 14:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO you not think that there is something wrong with a guy who should be in the work force wanting to date someone in grade 9. What can you 2 actually have in common. Hang out with some guys your own age, at least in your own school. Please please please think this through.
2006-12-10 14:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by Todd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋