My first marriage lasted only a little over 2 yrs. I was 22 the first time. Now my second marriage is different I was with him for 7 yrs. I loved him with everything I had. Now we are divorced. How will men look at me for being married twice.
The other thing is I have a child with each husband. My kids are 3 & 13. Ten yrs apart.
Does this make me look bad? I just tell people I meet that I am divorced with two kids. I dont tell. I just figure I will let the guy know once we are getting to know eachother.
I havent met anyone worth telling this to. But whent the time comes I am wondering what he will think.
Is it wrong not to tell right away? I believe in marriage and if I could have stayed married I would have.
2006-12-10 14:30:03 · 6 answers · asked by galbee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-10 14:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Galbe, divorce isn't a crime. Consider it this way. When you got married, each time, you decided it was a good thing to do. When you got divorced your reasons were based on information that wasn't available when the marriage ceremony took place. Had you known then what you later learned, you wouldn't have gotten married in the first place. So, you didn't make mistakes, you just took time to learn further information. Please note, this applies to your next marriage as well. Learn as much information as you can BEFORE you get married. Now, if you are an honest person and honor yourself as well as any prospective partner. you will know when it's the right time to share your personal history. You don't have to broadcast your private, personal life up front. These things come out in due time. Don't worry about it...worry about learning as much as you can about "him" first. Good luck.
2006-12-10 14:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of so in any respect. in certainty, i think of the alternative. My pal substitute into divorced by employing her husband. It substitute right into a administration subject - he needed information approximately her artwork that she refused to disclose. confident she substitute into having an affair, he left her, hoping she'd come to her senses and understand she could no longer stay without him. He went to their church and instructed all and sundry that she substitute into cheating. She wasn't and could no longer understand why no person spoke to her. in basic terms now, 3 years after the divorce, is all of it popping out. by employing the way, he divorced her on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour. He claimed she made him do the determining to purchase (he worked as a grocery save supervisor), and that she insisted he had to do the college run the youngsters each 2 weeks, while she had a company assembly. This meant he had to upward push up an hour early. He additionally noted her irrelevant friendship with yet another guy - a mutual pal. i've got viewed the divorce papers. She has an exceptionally no longer difficulty-free time because of the fact all and sundry is confident she could desire to have accomplished something extraordinarily incorrect. confident, she called his bluff, after an exceedingly hideous time of their marriage while he substitute into so eaten up by employing jealousy, he could no longer think of as we communicate. by employing the way - your pal substitute into possibly asked to pass away because of the fact some church homes have self assurance that divorce, regardless of the rationalization, is misguided. no longer because of the fact he's a guy who divorced his important different.
2016-12-18 11:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nowadays 2 isnt anything ...i dont think you will be judged
2006-12-10 14:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-10 14:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by zootigerstriped 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
depends why you broke up.
2006-12-10 14:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by steemshovel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋