Unsure if he is a player?

Question

If u like someone and u just met like for about 3 months that person from the beginning had seen future with you? Since day one he wanted you to move in with him...He was talking about marriage..and how many kids he wants to have and how he wants a daughter cause she should look like you...u know all that..And u liked him but not love cause u think u are still too young to know what love means..and ...most strangers says you to make a good couple but the major reason that his family and friends don’t like you..for some racist reasons..um so far he seems all good and you have a good friendship and you have a good open communication...but u always wonder if he is a player cause he acts like he is dying to be with you. Do u think he means what he says and how he acts?

Answer 1

i'd be suspicious. i'm not saying he can't genuinely feel those things, but any feeligns that strong can't keep lasting. especially if you have not known each other very long. I would not even think about marriage until you have had lots of opportunities to get to know him in various situations: you need to see how people act in all stages of life. wait a couple years! if he wants to get married after 2 or 3 years and you agree, go for it. but not until you really, really know him well.

Answer 2

You said you liked him not loved him, if you don't want a relationship like he wants don't do it. if you think you're too young for this type of relationship then you're probably right. I don't know what he means don't be pressured into some thing that doesn't feel right for you

Answer 3

There are warning signs in two areas.

One, players will try hard to make a girl feel special.
Two, he sounds like a clingy stalker.

Answer 4

Simple answer.

Is there an engagement ring on your finger?

Answer 5

He means HOW he acts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!