im 27 have had like 7 or 8 boyfriends, and they have all broke up with me for different reasons, so i mean why do all these guys find something different about me they dont like? where in the world do i find a guy that likes everything about me? how does this happen, im a nice and pretty girl. Im easy to get along with also. please help.
2006-12-10 14:26:31 · 29 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your question makes you sound insecure. if you are usually this insecure -- that could be the problem.
2006-12-10 14:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by sally p 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is different for every guy and girl!!
I am 25 and am still single...have been so for over a year, but I am not too worried right now. I can be happy in the knowledge that I am someone special and unique, and even though I have not met that person who can make my heart soar and give me butterflies in my stomach I know that person is out there.....and the same applies to you hunni!! I have dated 8/9 women and I was getting desperate but there is no need.
Hunni you are special, wonderful and (as you said) pretty and believe me when I say the man who lands you will be a very luck guy!! Dont worry ......you will be fine!!
I hope this helps!!
2006-12-10 22:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by Neil M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to find a man who likes everything about you, he will love you and tolerate your faults. We all have faults, however, when we fall in love we deal with the imperfections. You have just met the wrong men. Slow down and take a break, God has someone out there for you. Do a personal inventory of yourself and be very honest. What could you do to be a better person? What do you think your doing to chase these men away, or is it just them. And if you are pretty and intelligent, some men feel very insecure with women like this. So just take it slow, a strong and secure man will come along. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-10 22:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In life, there is no magic age or finishing line when it comes to what happens in our lives. 27 or 47---it doesn't matter. These guys are still searching and that's what's right for them. There is no rush to marry----you will eventually click. You don't say what the excuses are for a break up---are any of them good reasons---be honest. Is there something you need to change? All I can say is wait for a man who will appreciate you for who you are and will be happy with you. Till then, get out and enjoy life, mingle with your friends, be proud of who you are.....find your happiness one day at a time. I have been looking for 60 years-----I never found a woman who met my desires.--but I am the happiest person in the world. Good luck Merry Xmas
2006-12-10 22:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't concentrate so much on finding someone as concentrating on yourself. Trying to find a "missing piece" is not the answer. Work on making yourself whole, take in a new activity, go back to school for something, hang out with family and friends, volunteer for a charity that means a lot to you. When you spend more time on that and becoming whole yourself, you're more attractive to other people. People who go around wondering why they don't have anyone look needy and aren't so attractive.
2006-12-10 22:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by freedove06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it was not about you, see sometimes things go chaotic , and you start to wonder, I mean there is this saying Good things come to those who wait , but the best things happen all at once So stop searching it will be a suprise! We all need and work hard for TLC.
Loving God
protect me with
Your Love,
Prevent others
from viewing me with hostility.
Never allow
the negativity of others
to influence my life
or affect my destiny.
Oh how much good
I've lost
in losing control
of my anger;
such a large portion of life,
so much growth
I've let slip from my hands
by allowing my burning thoughts
to get better of me.
God,
teach me to let go.
God of wonders,
You've given me
the most wonderful
of all gifts--
the gift of free will.
May my will never deviate
from Your holy Will.
Guide me always,
so that all the choices I make
are good ones---
choices that are
in harmony with Your Will,
as long as I live.
God of unfathomable goodness,
the history of human agony
haunts my soul;
ashes, blood, and cries
pierce my heart;
diabolic schemes of oppressors
plague my mind.
Grand me an extra measure of
strength,
understanding
and faith
to help me find You--
to discover Your Light
midst the blinding dread,
through the revolving horror.
God, perfect God--
You created me
destined for perfection;
how far have I wandered
from that destiny!
How much of my purity
have I squandered
through careless, thoughtless,
self-centered behavior--
behavior wanting in morality
and holiness.
Overcoming Doubt
My vision is distorted,
loving God of truth.
I want to see clearly,
but my heart leads me
through twisted, convoluted paths
of misunderstood impressions.
Straighten those paths
so that I can strengthen myself
in the conviction of my beliefs.
Troubles
Kind, Loving, Mighty God:
Stretch out Your hand
to strengthen me.
Lift me up
from my abyss;
right my wrongs;
turn my every failure
into success.
Look upon my troubles
and say,
"Enough!"
Oh, God
Your Creation resonates
with holy sounds
Let me hear them all.
Let them penetrate my heart
and rouse my senses;
the jangle of a charity box;
the voice of an faithful teacher;
even the intonation
of my own sign
when I cry out to You--
all these sounds are holy.
Oh, God
let my heart hear them all
and be uplifted.
Ruler of the World,
grant me truth!
Spare me from the lies of others,
Help me stop myself
from lying
to others
Save me
from lying to myself,
and spare me
from the lies
of my own illusions.
Oh, God
never let me live a lie,
even for only a moment.
Center of all existence
help me find the way
to that sacred sanctuary
within myself,
to that precious center of my existence.
Help me discover
my place in the World--
that space where I truly belong,
that space which belongs
unconditionaly to me
Dear God,
I've wandered for so very long,
Help me find my way
home.
2006-12-10 22:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you are only 27, you aren't an old maid. Just because you haven't found the right one yet it doesn't mean anything.
BUT if they all found the same things wrong with you, you might want to take a look at what you might need to change about yourself.
2006-12-10 22:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look for common denominators, in the type of men you attract. Try a different fishing hole for different results. Men of character are few and far between. Try getting involved in a church, they are not perfect there but hopefully they are being called to a higher standard.
2006-12-10 22:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kathryn W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, it's okay. Just know that someone's gonna be SOOOO happy you are still single someday. He's going to feel so grateful -and dumbfounded, just like you!
It probably had to do more with youth than with you. As in, the men weren't ready to settle down.
Good luck.
2006-12-10 22:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by solaralley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why did THEY say they broke up with you.
Maybe go to therapy and find out if you are up for the truth.
Maybe get with somebody honest who would just tell you if you asked him. Then you at least would know what it was. Could be you just haven't found the right one yet. Statistics say its probably at least partly something about you though.
2006-12-10 22:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of all the different kids of people there are in the world...it's no wonder it may take MANY tries before we meet someone who is a good match for us...have patience...
2006-12-10 22:29:30 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋